| Hey guys, I'm new here but am after some opinions on sorting out a date with this girl.
Ok, the back story: I met this girl almost a year ago through friends and got on great for a night, I didn't run any game (maybe stupidly) as I knew I was off overseas with the military and wasn't going to be able to talk to her (I know she liked me though). By the time I got back she was away for a few months so it's been a long time since I saw her, the only contact was a little bit of online chat in the last month or two. I admit to a a bit of the old one-itis over this girl, she made a really big impression. I am somewhat in recovery though and am getting back control of my head.
While she was away she had a BF, though she dumped him when she got back as she wasn't that into the relationship. Awesome. However, I heard through a friend that she'd been contacted by another guy that she was working with and been friends with who had said he wanted to be more than just friends and she agreed, so while she has a potentially problematic BF its not like they're in a long running relationship or anything, so please don't start ragging me for trying to break them up, there's no way I'm just giving up on this one for AFC morality.
Anyway, I digress. We met up with some mutual friends a week ago and I have to say it was great to talk to her. She asked me if I still had my motorbike and through the course of the conversation mentioned she might like to have a ride on the back as she'd never done that (the way it was said though I didn't really see it as an IOI). I obviously agreed in a laid back sort of "Sure, anytime. We can sort it out, just gimme a call." or something like. I've not spoken to her all week, she did mention she was going away for a week v soon, not sure if that was this or next week, it doesn't really matter though as she'll be back.
So I was thinking nice day, give her a little "don't be scared, I'll look after you" sort of speech followed by a ride out so a very picturesque local pub (careful not so scare her but enough to be exciting) where I can build a bit of attraction/comfort. Sound like a plan? My worries are: 1 - She has a busy social life and I don't want to have to keep asking and sounding needy. 2 - She might chicken out. 3 - The BF (who is in a different f***ing country btw!)
So, any ideas? I was thinking of a playful, not too committal text soon to set it up (any ideas?). Any good BFD's or ideas for routines to run if I get her isolated? Thanks for reading all this guys, it turned out longer than I planned. Help appreciated.
Cheers!
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