I train with this girl in my triathlon club about 10yo older than me. She lives with her husband but theres definitely a lot of attraction between us. I'm trying to figure out if shes being sexually predatory or just comfort-blanket seeking: "Im still hot"

PS ride is very ambiguous. I was looking for a car ride (1) to a bicycle (2) workout since mine is uninsured while I ride (3) my motorcycle for the summer (yeah shes been on the back), and my favourite, 'call a lawyer cause your getting a divorce' type riding (4).

me: Can I hitch a ride to sasamat lake sunday? bike on bike is not as much fun as girl on girl, or whatever.
HBfit: IF YOU RIDE WITH ME YOULL NEVER WANT TO RIDE YOUR BIKE AGAIN! HA HA BUT I AM HEADING TO THE ISLAND FOR THE WEEKEND SO I WONT BE GOING. BUT NEXT TIME YOU CAN RIDE with ME! [doubt small type is a coincidence]
me: ha, get over yourself! theres little better than a sportbike between the legs anyway, hf on the island. and whats with all the caps?
HBfit: I LIKE BIG
HBFit: OH YEAH, IVE RIDDEN BOTH, I KNOW WHATS BETTER :O
me: yeah, its the size of the wave, not the motion of the ocean as they say. and of course a motorbike is more fun to ride than a bicycle

I sorta dropped the ball toward the end, shoulda said something like "you've ridden yourself? fair enough, sometimes one is lonely. can you teach me how to do that?" Whatever the wink probably covers it.

I think we will have to hit the beer garden after our next race. Since she's married I think I have to innocently flirt at the beer garden, invite her up to see a short-film of me on a cycling record attempt when she drops me off, offer her a drink and try ASK...

I don't even understand that bike on bike is not as fun as girl on girl?
WHAT?
I don't know maybe I am just dumb but that convo made no sense to me at all

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just a little update on this one...

we travelled to australia to race at worlds together, and of course had to head out and party when she arrived. on the way back from the club, i suggested walking on the beach, then a skinny dip. then it was back to my place (as long as we don't have sex ) and an easy close

she said her relationships been on its way out for the last year so now im just waiting for them to break up and i get another FWB =)

why is her stuff in capslock?


if these are texts, i'd be forced to tell her to STFU and type like a normal person

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