Something that messes with my inner game big-time is the fact that I have vitiligo around my torso. There is no cure for it, and self-tanning over it does not look good. It messes with my inner game because I feel as though they will think it's contagious or-when we go to bed- I'll have to give some form of explanation about it and ruin the moment. It's quite difficult because there is nobody I know who has it, so nobody I can really talk about it with, except family and friends, who say its unnoticeable/not that bad, etc. I'd appreciate any advice to help me tackle this inner game issue.

Quite frankly, you're lucky. Why? Because if it only affects your torso, it will be covered up most of the time anyway. By the time you get to the point where shirts are coming off, she should be wanting you BAD. You'll already have made such a strong connection that she's not going to care about some skin thing.

So what if you're meeting women at the beach? Easy. Don't give a shit about it. If anyone else does, don't give a shit about them. [If someone takes issue with the way God made me, then they can talk to the guy upstairs ]


Honestly, the only reason it will matter is if you think it matters.


I know this from experience (upper body scars).

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Hey man, I can definitely relate to this. I have a severe case of eczema all over my body (face, neck, chest, arms, etc) and it just looks really really bad. On the worst days, I know what you mean, my inner game just gets really down. I think the solution might just be desensitization. My insecurities with it have gotten substantially better over time, probably just through repeated exposure or through my overall confidence increasing. Wish I could help ya out with a more detailed method but that's what I've got for now, good luck

thanks, guys. snc666 - I feel for you. Eczema is supposed to be painful, too, or so I think I've heard. I believe Eli Roth has that or Psoriasis. I thought about saying it's a natural tattoo. Everybody else spends money to look different, be different, but I am. That was what came to mind after doing John Alexander's flaws into strengths. Or say it's like a tiger, a butterfly, something different but cool, unique. What do you guys think?

do you guys think I should tell the girl about it, or just let things unfold? I think telling her about it might come off as insecure. Honestly, this is the only part of the game I'm struggling with right now, so any input would help.