Hey everyone, I am in the midst of reading "the game." It's totally a great read and has opened my mind to a lot of new ideas. Before I started reading it, I went out with this girl. Afterwards a few days later we txted eachother "great to go out with you" type stuff. After that I tried to set up another date with her. I was out of town, so I txted her and she wrote back a long message basically saying she was busy. We txted again once or twice after that. In the end I put the ball in her court to tell me when she can meet. I think I did the wrong thing. First, I seem to eager (writing back all the time and not writing or saying the right things) and second I left it her option to call. I am really fretting over the fact that I might have blown it already. I want to get to know her and go out with her again. What should I do?

forget her, the less she means to you the more keen she will be to see you. If you make her think that she isnt impotant to you, she will come running. And if she dosent react at all or walks away then who cares!

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What a title!

I agree with what you said, but I think I blew it already. I didn't have that mind set earlier I only recently learned of all this. Now I think its late to start that. Is there something I can do to bring it back to life?

just go game some more women... sound like you might have a little one-itis...

go hookup/fuck some chicks and then see if you still want her..

im new too, and im reading the book as well. its great

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