Hi guys,

Just a few thoughts. I guess this is the kinda stuff that I at now, dealing with the dreaded approach anxiety.

If you have been a "shy" guy all your life, to suddenly go from that to master PUA the next day is not realistic and perhaps the shyer you are the more shit you are going to have to be prepared to go through before you change.


What I am trying to say, is that it is logical if you have been spending your entire life(as I did and still have an unconscious tendency to) avoiding social interactions because they seemed to inevitably lead to feeling embarrassed or small or stupid because you didn't know what to say. So to go from avoiding people and groups to actually approaching groups of really cool girls and keeping them amazed with your social skills is just not going to happen right away, no matter how many times you read the game stuff . I guess that is pretty obvious stuff but I sure do beat myself up for not doing it, or being the "shit"

They say that failure is nothing bad but actually a learning experience. My feelings seem to tell me otherwise.

This morning while trying to reframe my ideas about approaching and thought up this phrase.
This seems to encompass the basic idea that if you don't have a go and are willing to fail then success with women is an impossibility. so, See failure as your friend not your enemy.
these type of thoughts are the ones which are popping in and out of my head.

I wrote this to see what you thought but also to kinda put out what I was thinking to see if it could help anyone as well in the climb out of afc land. as Iam doing and succeeding at