Hi guys, Ok If u were gaming a HB and she is giving u all IOI's or put up her BS a bit up and suddenly she popped the question " are u single?", "do u have a girlfriend?", what would be the perfect answer or respond to not appear too needy of her or AFC ?.

That's an IOI. You can neg her about it in response .

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just give her an honest answer and roll into something else.
remember, you're a man of value with hundreds of girls chasing you. you already knew that she was into you too. girls ask if you're single all the time, it's not a big deal. so just shrug it off.

or you can neg her, after giving her an honest answer.

I pretty much rely on cocky funny stuff as a regular part of my game, but depending on what type of character you've built with the girl you can try this. It works for me cause I say stuff like this all the time. (I read this thread somewhere, not sure where at the moment)

Her: Do you have a girlfriend?

Me: Yeah, I actually have 9 girlfriends (brief pause and smile, but dont laugh) but I've been looking for lucky girl #10 (then look at her as if she may be the one)

Me: Being my girlfriend is actually pretty tough, they coordinate together to make my lunch, iron my clothes, take me out you know wine me and dine me. you probably couldn't handle it (laugh roll off into something else)

HB- Are you single?
PUA- My schedule can be full at times, but I guess I can fit you in.

Just an example, but any C&F will work here. I've said variations of this example many times, and it all depends on the voice tonality and body language. I guess I tend to dodge direct questions like that, but it appears the women love it.

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I always use the "I'm busy as shit" line....Lets them know that your not afraid of commitment...and she will realize that you just don't have "Time" for a GF...That usually pulls some more IOI's when she thinks I don't have time for her...She wants your undivided attention, and your attention when your busy....once she knows that you don't have time for her she will try harder to get it. Cat/string game.

I've typically just made a very honest scanning type statement in return. I'm looking for a FB relationship so it works well to spark her interest or at very least a conversation that can disarm her insecurities about it. I'm not going to chase her so if she doesn't like it then it then I'm probably better off. If she's asking you the 'girlfriend' question then indefinately your hooks are already in her so don't be afraid to be honest if it comes down to it...legitimacy is the surest way to maintain your congruency.

HB: Do you have a girlfriend?
me: Well that just depends on how you define a girlfriend.

or

HB: Do you have a girlfriend?
me: Girls and I have a lot of fun...let's just leave it at that. (*hooks, sparks intrique*)

and go from there using any cocky/funny, coy, or otherwise controlled and unapologetic answers for your intentions.

If she persists I'd neg her then give a legitimate truthful answer: "I'm not opposed to a monogamous, committed relationship with a great girl. I unfortunately just haven't found one yet. I think we all deserve the best for ourselves. Are you the best?" (of course she'll say yes and you can neg and continue with the c/f)

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What about

Her : Do you have a girlfriend
You : Sure, whenever I want (smile)

Not sure about the outcome of this one cos it might come over as cocky, but I'll fieldtest it.

That's really a good C&F to get her cracking lol

C & F is probably one of the best options to take. As said by many others as posted..

Here is one I liked posted by Kohzee

HB: Do you have a girlfriend?
me: Well that just depends on how you define a girlfriend.

I have a very good answer to that question.. but I believe it is too good to be shared. It's cool though there are still lots of options in this thread alone.

<img src="http://rlv.zcache.com/define_girlfriend ... uf_400.jpg">

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One thing I sometimes do (depending on the situation) is respond with

"surprisingly yes, it's probably due to my high standards"

This way you can DHV and she will start trying to meet your standards

I wouldn't bother trying too hard here a simple "yep, why?" would do the job. When a girl asks this unless you really fuck up it is on. So when you hear this it is officially escalation o'clock

completely agree, though i wouldn't include the "why?". just a simple "yes" and then move on.
there's no point in asking why, you already know that she's only asking it because she's keen...

"No, I'm actually a twin. How did you know?"

"Na, I'm just playing. I'm single but I'm not looking for a girlfriend right now. I just really enjoy showing women a good time as a boyfriend with a lower case "b." I want someone who has their life together and just enjoys having fun."


She might respond with: "So you have no intention of committing?" or something like that. Just tell her:

"Nope. I enjoy sharing amazing experiences with my girlfriends and creating memories, but I have no desire to be a boyfriend. I always feel that I should be absolutely honest about that."


Take it from there... unless you really do want do be her Boyfriend with a capital "B."