So I will give you guys a little background about myself so you can "evaluate" me a little bit better.


I am 17 and a junior in high school, I have always been part of the "cool crowd" and I can go just about anywhere and have friends or people I am cool with. I am not a virgin, I am good looking, and wear designer clothes.

Looking back at my life I was a very outgoing individual in every aspect, but once I got into high school social abilities seemed to go down the drain. I find myself out of words very quickly in almost any situation and I have trouble making connections with people. For example- there are girls that have told me in so many words that they want to have sex with me, but when I am at a party and see them I find myself avoiding them feeling I will make a fool out of myself. Girls that I find attractive that I would like to hit on I couldn't imagine myself sparking an meaningful/effective conversation. Basically, I have horrible self confidence.

From what I have read on this site in the short time I have browsed it people have started off in worse situations than mine. I am ready to change my way of life and stop being a pussy - I am wondering how I can go about improving myself, making it easier in these situations, just make social interaction with not only women easier.

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good luck!