Ok, Well there’s this girl that I work with. She is an HB7 in my eyes but by far the hottest and funniest chick on staff (prize of most co-workers eyes). I work at a convenience store and there are a lot more guy workers then girl workers, all around the same age.

Well, I’ve been gaming the HB7 and I get all the signs indicating that she is interested. My problem is how do I deal with other guys (some of them have gf’s too) constantly hitting on her. It seems like all the other guys are trying to get in on what I’m doing. Whenever I make her laugh and get her all excited its like they all swoop in and try and take away from my thunder..real dick moves.

Like yesterday, I was working my game, and threw out some playful banter and got her laughing her ass off. Some of my co-workers just start staring at us and laughing, then the HB7 was like what are they laughing at (she’s kinda insecure). Her whole thought process went from enjoying herself with me to thinking about what they were saying about her. Really ruined the moment badly.

I really view this as an inner game/co-worker issue but I don’t know how to handle it. Me and the HB7 are not dating really, and there is no commitment. Its just kinda frustrating when you start to like a girl, and she is constantly being hit on, in front of you, by numerous other guys. It seems like there is stuff that she only does with me, to indicate that she is interested (nicknames, touching, playfulness, always saying “hi” whenever she see's me, etc.). But whenever I give another girl some attention, she’s all over another guy touching him and stuff in front of me, getting him interested in her. How do I overcome these inner feelings of being jerked around, how do I handle this situation??

Of course I never let my emotions be seen on the outside, I stay cool and unaffected/un-needy, but this is tough. Advice?

ALL I CAN SAY THAT DUDES SEEM TO ME THAT THERE AMOG OR JUST TRYING TO BE SO A FEW QUESTIONS BEFORE I ANSWER HOW LONG HAVE U INVESTED WITH THIS GIRL IS SHE WORTH U GETTING JEALOUS FOR

SO WAT I WOULD DO IS TO LET HER DHV FOR YOU BECAUSE YOU ALREADY RECIEVED UR IOI'S SO NOW UR IN A3 MALE TO FEMALE INTEREST MAKE HER JUMP INTO UR HOOPS JUS SAYING IF SHE TALK TO THESE AMOGS AND TELL HER TO COME OVER AND TALK TO YOU IF SHE DOES IT U JUS MADE HER JUMP INTO UR HOOP ALSO LIKE STAND UP STICK UR TONGUE OUT AND ETC SO NOW I THINK U KNOWN HER ENOUGH TO CLOSE ON IT WHETHER IT BE HER # OR KISS CLOSE NOW DNT SHOW HER UR JEALOUS IT JUS SHOWS LOW VALUE MAN

I HOPED THIS HELPED BUT I REALLY WANT U 2 TELL ME MORE DETAILS ABOUT THIS GIRL SO I CAN HELP A LIL MORE TALK TO U SOON

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Thanks for the reply man,

Well the dudes I work with aren’t really alpha males. I’ve pretty much framed my working environment to where I am the alpha male. Most of these guys come talk to me, pretty much everyone come talks to me, just because I’m the one who usually makes work fun. I’m friendly toward these guys and everyone at work, so there’s really no bad blood.

I’ve invested some time into this girl. She was in a couple classes with me and she was still interested even at school. We’ve hung out once, outside of work and school, we went to the mall with friends. That was an ok interaction. Her friends were there so it was like she wanted to seem in control and stuff, and every move I made was on display for her friends to judge, no chances for kino escalation/or kiss close (already #-closed ).

I’ll definitely try the getting her to jump through my hoops. This may be a newbie question, but what does this accomplish in the girl. If I ask a girl to do stuff and she does it, how will this help.

Really want to get another date, but not sure where to go. On a side note any fun activity date ideas out there? Need some help with that too.

lmao didnt read your latest post. I had bad blood in my situations, Made little progress in front of guys I thought were fellow friends, because of them blocking or aiding in distractions. But as you did, theres always ways to work around that shit.

Yea you were on straight trial being in front of her friends. Although if she pulled anything i would not be afraid to act appropriately in front of her friends. I know it seems awkward to do so but wasting a opportunity especially if she opt'd in for something.

Next time make sure you hang out 1 on 1 with her, and thats all the advice you should need as it should be easy money after that.