Hey Guys

I'm looking to make my next steps and thought I'd see what kind of advise I could get back. I'll try and let you get a feel as to where I'm at if you could, give some advise as to the best way to move forward. If you can get a feel for what I'm missing for the next step.

Might help to keep in mind I do overything sober.

-I'll go out to clubs, I can random stuff to get girls talking but flame out.
Ei my line has been something like "hey i was going to wear that same dress out tonight, or purse or whatever.
-Sometimes I'll just wave and hold eye contact and they'll come over
-I'll go to a mall or busy street and walk and just say hi to random people or use my line above.

There are two problems I seem to be having.
1) I play hard to get and then they seem to do it back, it's like I'm creating my own monster. They seem to close up or it's like they feel like they have to do it or there gona get played or something and then it dies out.

2) I can't keep them interested. I've got the stones to pass girls in the bar and stop them with that line or whatever but then I can't seem to keep them interested, the convo will flame out. Or if I do get a number they flake, or go out and then flake. I can tell they're not excited to hang out or they are but I can't seem to make it last.

Fluff!!!!
your body rocking is your hard to get, so's your time constraint and your neg!
so keep talking till your jaw is sore, then go "hey im gonna get back to my friends but this was fun, can we continue this sometime"... number.
In your fluffing you need your qualifiers. Forget routines, its obviously not working. Get your hobby or dream job and become passionate about it, when they ask you what you do say it but then say "what i realy want to do is...." with lots of enthusiasm. Then say "Im gonna stop now i dont want to bore you" and you've just invited an I.O.I. cos if she likes you shes going to say no, maybe touch you. ITS A PERFECT TIME TO ISOLATE!!! Then chat a bit more, ask her if she's passionate about anything. Spontaneous? kiss close! if you even bother to go that far and havent already left as mentioned above, cos she'll now chace you.
Its all about energy levels, if you can find something you love it qualifies you!

I read that tag on shit tests as well, I think that could be a big part of my "opportunity" haha anyway I'll keep working on it and find out. Thks for the post