Hi!

Should attractive men also maintain the laid-back, cool, and collected body language or should they be a little more humble?

Because attractive men will most likely be perceived as a "player", will not the alpha body language add fuel to the fire? Like a girl might think "Oh wow! He must be a real player that doesn't care about any women!"

Input please. Thanks!

first of all its great to meet you second no dnt do that cool laid back look jus be really playful and fun like willing to meet everybody thats DHV to all the women in the room because its not the outside man its the inside smiling to everybody in the room and saying hi those two things combined shows alot of confidence and sureness of urself
because jus think how many guys do that in a club like there jus chilling and laying back and staring at the crowd like there tough girls r not interested in that jus makes u look boring they want fun people

hopes this help talk to you soon

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great to meet you im ISAIAH

Thank you for your insight!

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Hi mate,

Body language is of great importance whilst communicating with people. If as u state, an attractive man portrays himself as being an attractive man, he is likely to make a bad impression i have on many occasions stood with women talking about AMOGSas being "try hard" and "Overconfident". The key is to look calm, collected but poweful.

I usually give three pointers when adressing this subject;

1. Keep your hands out in sight and palms facing upwards, using your hands to underline what you are discussing is key. A man trying to look cool by showing his hands down his pockets is a sign of weakness and anxiety.

2. Straighten up - it shows intrest in what you are doing and gives your voice a different tonality since you open up your airways.

3. Use your hand and feet to build attraction - kino escalation and bodyrocking cant be done, if youre cramped up and too laidback.

The key when gaming would be to know when to go from the "maybee-ok-looking" dude to Attracive Alpha male.

Best regards,
Swing

Thanks Dr_Swing!

I don't get the "palms facing upward part...so when you sit down your palm should be facing up? What about when you're standing?


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Having your palms face upwards while you are talking is a sign you dont feel anxious or enerved by the situation, you are opening up to people around you - you feel at home with the situation. Same goes for standing up or sitting down.

If i was for example talking to someone having my fists closed on the table, I would look scared or pissed, if i had my hands shoved deep in my pockets people would subconciously draw the conclusion that i'd be lying or that i was anxious, since im hiding my hands... either way it would probably be a lonely night for me ^^

I use my hands alot when i talk to get more feedback on what im saying, i dont overdo it, but being able to use your body to underline a point is always good.

hope this explains it! Best regards,
Swing.