| Comfort Blankets, this is my name for them not sure what else you guys may call it, Basically most PUAs will be able to avoid it and have the sense, but many may fall into one, It happened to me once. and almost once again, basically from this girl Hb7 Who I gamed, she loved attention from guys so i did alot of negs and qualification, she was cool and all, I number closed, we met up again and K Closed, and then after then I stayed at hers, slept with her kissed her, but sexually esculating? the excuse was oh my sister will hear next door etc, and I could just tell summit wasnt right. Altho i can blame this and that, cus im a Geek i like to think what I should of done then, and should of showed active disinterest etc, cus Ultimatly whatever the situation we want the girl, She came from the Maldives and 3 weeks later she moved back there, with her ...... (Boy friend who she always had), now there married lol, SO yeh I was used as a Comfort Blanket a Reassurence
The funny thing is, is that she stil rejected AFCs so my game worked and all, but she just had a different outcome on goals, Women need to feel loved or protected, its almost like a higher form of validation its crazy.
It almost happened again, By a girl who flirts with me heavily then, when I go to the party its friendly convos, and not only that but then It hit me a pattern almost. My wing has just encountered one with a girl who had split with her bf and used him to make him jelous and to feel loved,
So here is my advice for Comfort blankets, A women who wants you as a comfort blanket, which I will name comfort catchers may have the following traits/sticking points
Lots of Guy Friends
Recently Split from A Bf/Has a Bf in a long distance relationship
Very flirty and sociable
Bent on getting complience from you
So the key is too not get caught in it in the first place, and if you feel like your being used as one, break rapport and make her fight to get it. Much Love. Knuckles
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