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PostPosted: Fri May 08, 2009 9:31 pm 
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Its all about the circle of like my friend.

My philosohpy is sex is like wine, the longer you wait the better it is. I'm twenty and it sucks. But when I do get laid it will be with a HB10, and that one time will be better than most people will ever get. quality over quantity my friend.
dude, everyone's 1st time is usually pretty shoddy. plus, your seeming really cocky that it'll be with a HB10 and saying it'll be better than other peoples...when honestly, it won't.

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Lol I'm kind of mad when I post people can't notice sarcasm. I'll put a * at the end of a post if its not meant to be taken seriously. :)

And I'm not bragging Teen. I'm just sarcastic when I post. But the wine comment wasn't. Lol... And about the first I've accepted that its going to be rather pathetic and short lived, but it likes once the first domino falls, all the others will follow. If that makes sense.

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I was 16 when I decided to change myself, but I didnt discover PUA untill 2 months ago. I'd reccomen you to try more thing other than PUA: build a proper social life with more friends, become popular (how? give yourself a month's time to prepare everything and then one mondey you arrive to shcool like a new man, new clothes, new haircut). Go for the girls after you have biult the base of the life you want.

(As far as I understand the american society, I bet once you start getting laid with the most beautifull wemen, everyting is going to be OK)


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Its all about the circle of like my friend.

My philosohpy is sex is like wine, the longer you wait the better it is. I'm twenty and it sucks. But when I do get laid it will be with a HB10, and that one time will be better than most people will ever get. quality over quantity my friend.
dude, everyone's 1st time is usually pretty shoddy. plus, your seeming really cocky that it'll be with a HB10 and saying it'll be better than other peoples...when honestly, it won't.

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Lol I'm kind of mad when I post people can't notice sarcasm. I'll put a * at the end of a post if its not meant to be taken seriously. :)

And I'm not bragging Teen. I'm just sarcastic when I post. But the wine comment wasn't. Lol... And about the first I've accepted that its going to be rather pathetic and short lived, but it likes once the first domino falls, all the others will follow. If that makes sense.
don't be sarcastic on here, its stupid and pointless, were on here to be completely honest, not sarcastic. plus sarcasm is the lowest form of whit...and girls tend to hate it too...so do boys.

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PostPosted: Sun May 17, 2009 11:45 pm 
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I'm 17, I never had a girlfriend in my life, I've never kissed a girl, of course I'm a virgin.. Plus I've never even came close to head or anything.. I just wanted to document that before I start my crazy journey of pickup..
Good luck man! I didn't kiss a girl until I was 17, felt pretty depressed about it too, but you just don't have to worry about it. It'll all happen in due time, just keep focusing on improving, and don't neglect school-work. Trust me, this isn't worth stressing over, I was in your shoes once, and everything will happen in due time.


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Teen: As a new person I would say you're gonna scare away new people. You should try to correct us more gently when we make PUA faux pas.

Also, (not bragging) but I may have it the worst of all. I'm almost 23 and never had a gf or K-close. Its mostly because of a K-close anxiety. I have been in situations where its obvious to everyone involved that we should be fooling around but I get what I can only imagine is what people with phobias feel. My heart starts racing, I even visibly shake and no matter how bad I want to move or act I just cannot do a single thing. The conversation even stops sometimes because I can't think about anything else till I stop trying to kiss her. Its awful and epic and has happened 4 or 5 times in my life.

If anyone has any good advice for getting through that please let me know. Sorry if this is high jacking the thread.


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Teen: As a new person I would say you're gonna scare away new people. You should try to correct us more gently when we make PUA faux pas.

Also, (not bragging) but I may have it the worst of all. I'm almost 23 and never had a gf or K-close. Its mostly because of a K-close anxiety. I have been in situations where its obvious to everyone involved that we should be fooling around but I get what I can only imagine is what people with phobias feel. My heart starts racing, I even visibly shake and no matter how bad I want to move or act I just cannot do a single thing. The conversation even stops sometimes because I can't think about anything else till I stop trying to kiss her. Its awful and epic and has happened 4 or 5 times in my life.

If anyone has any good advice for getting through that please let me know. Sorry if this is high jacking the thread.
i'm only being harsh because i'm fed up with AFC's/new PUA's being cocky and i've learnt the only way to get them to stop...is by doing what i did.

if i were you and i was in that situation...i'd let them know how nervous you are (but don't tell them you've never kissed anyone) because there then more likely to make the move. i've actually faked that once...just to get with a HB8 :) but obviously told her afterwards that it wasn't true and we've been dating ever since

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Dam I'm turning 17 this month and I've only kissed once in my life (I felt her up too). She was hot and thought I was hot. The thing isn't that I'm shy to talk to girls (they think I'm extremely funny), but I'm absolutely TERRIFIED to go out with them and I freeze up. It's uncharted territory for me, so I'm scared of it.

When girls meet me for the first time they're surprised I've been single for months (my whole life actually, excluding a make out session), but I don't tell them I'm a virgin. Everyone thinks I've had sex so I played along with it as not to DLV (fake it till you make it..), but damn I'm most likely not going to live up to expectations my first time because girls realllly think I'm a good looking guy.
Wow this sounds just like me! :lol:

If it goes anything like my story did you'll lose your virginity when you're 17


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^ stop trying to boast on here. big PUA no no anywhere anytime. no1 asked what girls thought about you so no one really cares.

anyways, physical attraction is only about 20%. personality is where its all at.

and where all girls think your funny, thats not always good because they won't usually find you sexually attractive or even attractive at all

+ if girls like you soooo much, why are you still a virgin? thats poor game in my eyes

bottom line, don't big yourself up, especially on here where no one cares. its the truth

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Look teen,

I dont think any of the members in the prior posts were trying to brag about their good looks. I stress that point in many of the posts I make, that I'm a good looking guy but I get nowhere with girls. We know just as well as you do that looks will only get you so far, because we've been through it. We tend to think we could get lots of pussy on our looks alone but we learn the hard way that you need game to get anywhere with girls (although I must admit my looks got me further in high school than they are now that I'm in college). So we stress that in our posts so that the readers know that it's not all about looks, so they can learn from our experience. No bragging involved.


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^ stop trying to boast on here. big PUA no no anywhere anytime. no1 asked what girls thought about you so no one really cares.

anyways, physical attraction is only about 20%. personality is where its all at.

and where all girls think your funny, thats not always good because they won't usually find you sexually attractive or even attractive at all

+ if girls like you soooo much, why are you still a virgin? thats poor game in my eyes

bottom line, don't big yourself up, especially on here where no one cares. its the truth

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Look teen,

I dont think any of the members in the prior posts were trying to brag about their good looks. I stress that point in many of the posts I make, that I'm a good looking guy but I get nowhere with girls. We know just as well as you do that looks will only get you so far, because we've been through it. We tend to think we could get lots of pussy on our looks alone but we learn the hard way that you need game to get anywhere with girls (although I must admit my looks got me further in high school than they are now that I'm in college). So we stress that in our posts so that the readers know that it's not all about looks, so they can learn from our experience. No bragging involved.
he was bragging about personal attributes, not looks...read before you try and state your case.

and when you say "you need game to get anywhere with girls" thats shit coz alot of the time it works to just be yourself and do what you would do, not what the game has taught you to do.

and i know looks don't count that much, i've been called an ugly fuck by 2 girls...that didn't stop me from F-closing them though.

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^ stop trying to boast on here. big PUA no no anywhere anytime. no1 asked what girls thought about you so no one really cares.

anyways, physical attraction is only about 20%. personality is where its all at.

and where all girls think your funny, thats not always good because they won't usually find you sexually attractive or even attractive at all

+ if girls like you soooo much, why are you still a virgin? thats poor game in my eyes

bottom line, don't big yourself up, especially on here where no one cares. its the truth

-teen
Look teen,

I dont think any of the members in the prior posts were trying to brag about their good looks. I stress that point in many of the posts I make, that I'm a good looking guy but I get nowhere with girls. We know just as well as you do that looks will only get you so far, because we've been through it. We tend to think we could get lots of pussy on our looks alone but we learn the hard way that you need game to get anywhere with girls (although I must admit my looks got me further in high school than they are now that I'm in college). So we stress that in our posts so that the readers know that it's not all about looks, so they can learn from our experience. No bragging involved.
he was bragging about personal attributes, not looks...read before you try and state your case.

and when you say "you need game to get anywhere with girls" thats shit coz alot of the time it works to just be yourself and do what you would do, not what the game has taught you to do.

and i know looks don't count that much, i've been called an ugly fuck by 2 girls...that didn't stop me from F-closing them though.

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Okay calm down Teen, I think we have a misunderstanding. I was talking about what Blue Dre said not Giovannie 420, who I believe you're referring to.

And as far as game goes, I know exactly what it is. When I say "game" I'm not referring to some program. So as you put it, "being yourself and doing what you do", that's exactly what I'm talking about when I say "game". So get your shit straight homie.

And I have a question, related to your last statement about "f-closing" those girls; are roofies sold over the counter? Just curious.[/i]


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1. i was referring to blue dre as there was no reason for him to say "girls find me really funny"

2. i know what you mean when you talk about 'game', i have 2 me's in a way. i can act like my old self whenever i want to but my new self is the better me, one for the ladies if you want, and the old me is what im like around my guys.

3. i have no clue what roofies are...some sort of american term that we don't use over here.

4. why does everyone care so much. the guy was bragging, i told him not to, get over it. no big deal.

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Hey, not a problem. I'm 17 years old, never been on a relationship before, never kiss, never touch the mellons, everything. But in 2 days, I got an instant date with the girl I'm still dating (the girl in my avatar) And just in 1 month, my life changed greatly, you won't believe who I was, seriously. So keep doing it, and eventually it'll come close to your head. ;)

Hope this helps,

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lol i have the same prob as u im 17 and i only made out twice no sex .... when i found out about pua stuff it changed my game alot like the blueprint , it kind of opens up your mind imo


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Having sex is overrated! If you can get a girl hot without touching her, that's the time you can call yourself a man. Look at Johnny Depp and Brad Pitt. They have wives now but they're still considered Alpha males. It's not the number of wins guys but how you play the game.


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