for a situation I'm not really used to. For the last six months I have have been training my skills to where I'm at a good place at being able to meet women & have had some amazing nights out more recently.

One of my best friends who I haven't seen in months & knows little to nothing about my transformation got married yesterday. I went stag to the wedding because didn't have a date a few months ago when this was set up & I was still very semi-chode.

At his wedding he was playing matchmaker with with me for one of the brides maids who ended up being about the only single one. I love the guy to death & know he was just trying to be my friend but he put me in an awkward position of basically having to take the girls number & agreeing to call her to set up a date.

She's a nice girl fairly attractive but she's really not my speed if you know what I mean. I didn't feel any chemstry, she didn't even seem that into me either. Both seemed to be putting on happy faces. Also I already felt like last night was a wasted night being the 1st Saturday in 6 months I havn't been in a club. I really don't even want to waste a weekend going on a date with her.

I really value my friend, he worked hard to set us up & he and his wife are great friends with her as well which makes it awkward. All he really knows is I was a chode 6 months ago so if I blow her off it just makes me look bad. Like what's wrong with this guy he can't get dates and there's nothing wrong with her you know. He doesn't know my life of more abundance & choice now.

Any tactful outs? I value this friend & know he was just trying to do good by me.

just go on the date, and have fun
Don't worry about closing whatever but for crying out loud have fun

Your friend will be happy aswell.

Coffee Date my friend. You satisfy everyone with this. As well your not being disrespectful in anyway. It won't take more then an hour AT MOST. Plus it will cost you less then 10 bucks.

Worse comes to worse, you can always just be honest with her. For all you know she might just be look to fuck something.

But yeah hope that helps.