We've all had it and I have it now as well...

Sadly I've known of PUA for about 2 years now and have not developed my skill. I've just spent my time sitting around hoping that eventually the skill would magically come over me and I could pick up any girl I wanted... Well these past 2 years have been lonely. I've kissed only 2 girls (within about 6 months of each other) and the latter of the 2 girls I've had a huge crush on for a while now. Her and I were going to be together a few months ago but I acted like a fuckin AFC big time, creeped her out and she stopped talking to me for a while; which is hard because we work together (I know, it always happens at work, right?).

We remained good friends, even up until know, and I told her that I would be developing my skills in something called "PUA" and she thought it was interesting. I told her a bit about it and she claimed that the ideas behind PUA work on most girls; but of course not on her. I chuckled because I knew she was as susceptible as any other but I didn't burst her bubble. It was at that time I decided to just act cocky-funny around her, act like an alpha around her and all the other people I work with (sadly I have yet to transfer it outside work). In the past 2 weeks, this girl who 2 months ago was trying to find any chance to avoid me is now telling me we don't hang out enough, i should come over when her parents are gone, we should go out together and so on.

Now I am at the threshold of becoming a PUA and leaving my AFC ways behind me. Now I will choose which girl I want to be with and how long I'd like to be with her. This one girl now, I still have feelings for and part of me feels like she could be the one girl that could stop that. I know we have a lot in common and we are good friends and have been for a while now. But at the same time... I'll just tell her that I like her and all (AFC, I know) but I can't be in a relationship, I just want to keep it open... HA. Anyway, to finish: just read my quote from Style \/

_________________
Peace,

Love John

"The cure for one-itis, PUAs like to say, is to go out and have sex with a dozen other girls- and then see if this flower is still so special." Style

Man, you have written your story, and then you have pointed what you should do. Actually, I can't say something that you don't alrealy know. However, I would like to ask you something. See, when I discovered PU, I felt like I was like on the top of the world. And throughout all my life after that, I haven't got even a single "fuck this PU shit" period. For me, developing my skills with women was something that, when I learned was possible, became something that I knew I should do. I had never though of giving up PU. And it's strange for me that some people do it. I mean, all you have to do is to approach. And that's even fun, you know! (at least now is). So if you could give me some in-depth info about why you didn't practise pickup after you found it, I will really be pleased . Just it's hard for me to imagine not-wanting to improve your skills with women (or social skills for that matter)

_________________
Keep Sarging!
Play2Win

[In The Field Right Now]

at the time i was really negative and pessimistic, i didn't think i could do it even though the whole idea behind PUA is making guys (like myself) understand the method behind attraction. i have lately developed a more positive attitude and although i wish i had spent my time trying to make the best of a situation, the only thing i can do from this point is move forward and do the best i can...

_________________
Peace,

Love John

"The cure for one-itis, PUAs like to say, is to go out and have sex with a dozen other girls- and then see if this flower is still so special." Style