Met up with one of my main wings last night at a bar. He was with some girls he met at the gym. I'm flirting with one of them and taking pictures for them.

At one point one of the girls throws her purse in front of the others face. It ruins the picture. I offer to hold her purse and she declines.

Later I'm talking to one of her friends and I go, "Let me hold your purse". I do and show the other girl, "Look your friend let me hold her purse."

She then threatens to fight me because she doesn't know me. She got in my face. My response was no I don't want to fight you. Pretty awkward...her friends says I should apologize...I say no. The girls eventually go to another part of the bar. I leave shortly after that.

Never elicited that kind of response before...thought it was pretty funny. Situations like that all you can do is laugh about them...just hoping I didn't look too weak, but really - who is going to fight a girl.

LOL! Well....that was interesting. Was this girl drunk? She might have been intentionally out to mess things up for you. You have to make sure you befriend the target's friends or else the friends will do everything in their power to ruin it for you.

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Not a PUA just a girl offering my opinions/advice

You did the right thing. You didn't have to apologize for shit! Next time just remember your a PUA and there are plenty of other girls out in the club looking for a man to seduce them. So get it done.

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You needed to apologise, from what I read it seemed like you refused to have the balls to admit you were out of line.


You did not know her and you asked to hold her purse.

Think about it with some empathy. You are a girl, a guy who you do not know has just asked to hold your purse, which contains your phone, credit cards, money, keys etc etc

Any assurance that he will give it back?

"Hey man, you wanna send me your wallet? I'll pm you my adress... go on, I'll send it back!!" Understand, how she was feeling?

The whole deal could have been avoided if you said.

"I'm sorry, we've just met, I'm being out of line, clearly your not feeling comfortable"

Then continued with the conversation.

Losers OVER apologise.
Losers in denail NEVER apologise.
Winners are sociable and understand when they have over-stepped the line.

Correct application of manners and social understanding will get you miles, next time you get that responce, analyse where you stand, if you find you are out of line, admitt it. Apologise and let that be the end of it.

Fin - Great advice. I may run into her again...if I do that line is perfect.