...predicament. I dated this girl in 10th grade, we broke up. Ever since I've been in love with/have one-itis for her. I've been really AFC with her since then. Its been about 4 years. Talked intermittenly after I went off to college, then she decided to go to the same college as me.

Anyway, her and I had sex for the first time the other day. She was looking for someone, and picked me I guess. My question is, how do I get this to happen again? I'd love to get back in a relationship with her, but I don't really see that as a possibility unless I change a lot. Afterwards, I had mentioned a couple times "next time blah blah blah" and she always said "yeah next time..." so it sounds like she agreed to it.

Also, if you guys have any idea how to get over her, that would be awesome too. I'm finally truly thinking about talking to someone about this I think that's my best bet.

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Men fall in love with their eyes. Women fall in love with their ears.

Yes, search for one-itis on the forum.

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Been around the world twice, Talked to everyone once...

Talking to someone like a shrink?

here, ill give you the whole session in a single statement, and you can honestly answer it for yourself.

how does it make you feel, someone else is actively controlling and manipulating you?

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"The greatest mistake you can make in life is to be continually fearing you will make one."

Thanks JSmooth didn't think about that.

And D.C. that's an interesting point. My immediate answer is she's not controlling/manipulating me. At least not all the time. The more I think about it, the more I can kind of see that though. I just don't know how to stop.

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Men fall in love with their eyes. Women fall in love with their ears.