Anyone who expects to read a success story now, read this:
* Turn away.

Okay, to the rest of you who didn't follow my advice, I am going to tell you about my night out in a smaller city outside Uppsala last Friday.

Me and a friend (not a wingman, he steels anything he can get or messes it up for me!) was out on this club and over there we pretty early meet two women’s, which was old school friends of him. They were not pretty but it didn't matter, I still wanted to see how they reacted on that I have read so far.

One girl (G1) was standing to the left of me, my friend to the right and the other girl (G2) to the right of my friend. I and G1 started to talk to each other about general stuff ("So, what do you do?", "How old are you?", "Where do you live?" etc. etc.) and she was a little older then I was and thought I was young so I said something like:
- "You know, 30 is the new 22!" and she started to laugh. After I should have said something like:
- "No, just kidding, you are old ..." in a flirty way but I just stood there and DLV.

Nothing interesting happen, I just though afterwards what I should have said and done what I shouldn't have.

Anyhow, we went to another dance floor and it wasn't much people and the majority was guys but there were two girls which everyone was looking at.

I started to dance with my friends (friend, G1 and G2) and after a while I went to the two hot girls and said:
- "Hey, I don't like Swedish girls; I am in to Asians so do not worry, but how does it feel to have every guy in the room starring at you?"
- "It feels really great!"

Here, once again, I DLV (I "gave" them the DHV, which means I DHL). I probably said something totally irrelevant and AFC like.

I went back to my friends and when I saw that the girls were leaving (it was almost closing time) I waited a minute or two and then I went after them (Desperate!) and they went to the closet to check out their jackets and I said to them:
- "Leaving now?"
and then one of the girls said
- "Yes, we are leaving with our boyfriends now ..." (and pointed at two guys standing next to them)


Okay, target wise it didn't went well but I have started to analyze my game constantly and I am trying to interact with more people, which are going well if I am "forced" to talk to them but I have a lot of approach anxiety.

/Restarted

Hey man,
give it time. Soon, you'll be the guy going home to bang the hot babe.

stick at it, the more you approach the better it goes for ya.

good luck.

Thanks for the support, I appreciate it!

Man, respect! You admitted you act sometimes like an AFC. It's good. You have the consciousness of being not he best and have distance to your own. That's important.