Just wondered what everybody did in situations like mine. Got to know this girl and constantly in contact (text, school, etc) but anyways she told me that she didnt think she was interested after a while. Since then, we've been pretty much best friends (for a few months, WEIRD situation I guess) and I just wondered what you guys would have done. I didnt mean to stay THAT close to her but it just kinda happened. Any chance of changing her mind though or is the friend zone a black hole?

Hey buddy

Shit that's too bad. Once you're in the friend hole, it's tough to get out. There are things you could've done differently, although i'm just assuming because i'm not completely sure how you screwed up. I'm guessing you were there for her when she needed you. You were willing to help her out of her problems, or you'd atleast converse with her about them. Never do that! FRIENDS are for talking to. If you wanted her to treat you as a prospect, (Incorporate this for next time) you should've first of all displayed the 6 characteristics of an alpha (Smile, Confidence, Humor, Grooming, Social Proof, Connection). Secondly, when you're around her and her group of friends, focus on her friends, not her. This lowers her self worth. Last thing, don't ever have all of your eggs in one basket; Even when you are convinced you want to be with one girl, play the fuckin field man. The more girls you have in your life, the better your chances of being with the chick you want to be with. People want what they can't have, and if you're getting attention from other ladies, and she sees you slippin away, she may react in the way you want her to. Lots of info here, apply what you want. Good luck dude. All the best.

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Butterfly

Reverse roles. She isnt interested in you, subtly put her in the frame of wanting you, and she cant have you. Cat string theory. Dhv up the wazoot. Kino escalate. Im not talking friendly kino, hugs etc, i mean more than friendly kino, its important to distinguish between the two to know when you can pull the trigger. For example, knees, neck, wrists. All vunerable areas tend to be more than friendy. Then again a squeeze on the ass is needed occasionally .
Sexually frame her. If she says something which in another frame could be seen as sexual, tell her to behave. Short easy, and to the point. If she says im being good! tell her that shes a horny devil with 18 inch red rubber dildos for horns.

Before youve qualified her, bring in some preselection DHV to inspire some good old envy.

Keep the compliancy tests coming, and keep her INVESTING IN YOU. Dont qualify until youve recieved a strand of more than friendly IOIs. Push pull and create some good old sexual tension. When youve got enough, tell her that you would let her kiss you, but your not ready for it yet, so instead she may give you an almost kiss. ''whats an almost kiss?'' Both go in for a kiss, and hold without kissing a few centimeters away from each other. Make her pinky promise she wont really kiss you. Repeat the process and escalate each time, etc, stroke her hair when you do it for the second time. if youve done it right she will explode with sexual tension. This way you wont have to make a move, you can damn near garuntee shes going to do it for you.

Good luck man.

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V1V

Obviously you did something that made your statius >>>>>= friends only.

Try your luck somewhere else as it may be of best intentions if your already too far gone with this chick.

Texting is sort of cheap, if you did it a lot, 24/7 with her then that was 1 of your mistakes...can tell you that right now.

Obviously you did something that made your statius >>>>>= friends only.

Try your luck somewhere else as it may be of best intentions if your already too far gone with this chick.

Texting is sort of cheap, if you did it a lot, 24/7 with her then that was 1 of your mistakes...can tell you that right now.

Just move on. And take it as a learning experience. The main reason friend zones happen is you wait too long to make a move, or you come on too strong, and of course getting too close to her. Don't be her shoulder to cry on about her boyfriend being an ass-hole, don't tell her you're in love with her, and don't wait 3 years to make a move on her.

The sooner you make a move, the less likely it is that you'll be in the friend zone, even IF you do get rejected it doesn't matter, you have a much better chance with it than you would have without making a move, because by simply physically making a move you are setting the precedent for the relationship and stating your intentions. Also the up side for the rejections is that you screen her out early on so you don't waste time on her anymore.