How do you deal with it when a woman tries to make you jealous, or at least it seems so?

I work in an office and at 1st I thought this girl liked me so I asked her out after about 2 months or so, and she said she had plans but mabye next time. So I said to myself "whatever, guess she doesnt like me afterall". I remained nice, but no more joking or anything with her, and then all of a sudden she started paying more attention to me. It's kind of escalated now to the point where, all of a sudden, when another worker is next to me she is suddenly Ms. Flirt and Ms. Bubbly (never like that WITH me, just in front of me). Is she trying to make me jealous?

How do I play this? I'm not sure if she likes me or likes THE ATTENTION I give her (used to give her anyway). So anyway, how do I act when she tries to make me jealous and flirts (obvious) with other guys in front of me? And what's the next step to "progress" or at least find out if she's bullsh*tting me and leading me on. Thanks!

I had an interesting experience with a women who did whatever she could to make me jalous.

I already slept with this girl and we went out together with her friends. After a while she said 'why don't you dance with my friends?' So i did. I was dancing quite sexual with her friend but didn't cross the line (=kissing). Apperently she started to get jalous (I didn't notice at that moment) She started to chat with other guys. I wanted to turn my head around to see what she was doing, but i didn't cause I knew that it was where she was seeking for. The intimicy between her and other guys was getting deeper.. and guess what, she finally ended up with kissing another guy behind a wall. When she came back 10 minutes later she was touching me whit a big face on her smile. I threw her hand away and she wanted to talk to me. We had a big argument, well she had, it didn't affect me at all and i just stayed relaxed. She admitted that she kissed him to make me jalous and hoping i was going to chase her. Of course I didn't. i had ignored all her tactics and i told her i didn't wanna see her anymore. She knew she failed and was begging me and calling me the rest of the night that she wanted to have sex with me...

So Samuel, yes she wants to make you jalous. If you want to keep your powerfull position you should ignore it. But in my opinion jalousy is never good for the relation you have with someone. It's best to give her attention when there has not been a situation before wherin she tried to make you jalous. But don't give her too much interest at this moment, that will give her the power (where she is really seeking for)

Good luck with it,

Phoenix

I agree its often best to avoid women who play games like that, as it can be very stressful, Think of there jelous tactic as a shit test, she putting up a hoop and wants u to chase her, thus u giving up ur power,

A girl I f closed, she was once in a club with me, and she was dancing with everyone and she always looked towards me for reactions, all night this went on, and when i was on the df she d grab me dance for like 20 seconds and then go with some other guy which i always walked off, not only that when ever she looked over, me and my wing just laughed and smiled and made it look like we where having a good time, (we where in our own reality) that night i was sleeping and the phone rings, and she goes my friends are all laughing at me at the mo, but just wanted to phone u, to say sorry for dancing with all those guys, im like its not like we where out together dont worry about it, shes like oh its just i really like u and think ur real cool and funny etc etc, ha ha dont let a women control ur emotions, control hers, Men need to be rocks in the storm, much love. and much love.

Knuckles

Thanks for the advice guys! But there is one more thing...

I dont think this girl is girlfriend material. Too many head-games, and if shes playing them now, imagine if we started going out!

However, I wouldn't mind f'ing her. So I just wanted to ask, whats the best way of getting a chick like this in the bedroom? Its great that I will continue to ignore her, and maintain my "power" over her, but is that really getting me any closer to nailing her? How do I get her into bed?

Incidently, this is more of an "experiment" on my part. I want to nail this stupid b*tch, then laugh in her face as I dump her to the curb (not literally of course).

So how do I get her into bed? Whats the next step?

The question though is "why" is she making me jealous...because she likes me? Or just for her personal ego trip (i.e. when I fawn over her she can say to herself "oh yeh I still got it and I just proved it!")?

She did say "she has plans" then started chasing me after that when I blew her off. So not sure what her deal is. Playing hard to get perhaps?

It's not so easy to imagine the whole situation only by words on a screen. Anyway, i will give you my opinion about it.

She is trying to make you jalous because she is seeking for you're attention. Probably she's doing it beacause she is interested in you. Next time you see her fliritng with another guy, walk up to him and ask him if he's still single. No matter what his answer is, you reply to him that he and your friend would make such a nice couple. Move in the next line and say that your friend is really looking for a guy, but she isn't youre type and you decided to help her a little to find a nice guy for her (maybe you can adjust on it that you help cause she is a little shie).
You now showed your desinterest and negged her. If you play it good she should realise that your not impressed by all her 'playing hard to get' games.

Next day or a few days later try to ask her out very smoothly by telling her you're going out with some friends and tell her how funny it always is with them. Tell her that if she wants to have some fun, you allow her to join you.

Good luck with it buddy, Let me know how it all worked out...