So I am now a college student and have lost weight and gained confidence since high school.
I want to try and establish connections with some girls I went to high school with over summer. The only contact I have for most of them is facebook (#s for some).
I wonder if the community has any ideas of how I should proceed with this plan????

A blueprint would be nice:
i.e. facebook for number, then text/call, then maybe a mall date, then a party or some other place to hook up.

Bear in mind that in high school I was popular, lots of friends, and always the funny/nice guy

That blueprint you just thought up would work great. Use some canned material for your messaging, this should help a lot......
list-of-text-messages-game-vt21175.html
It works well for both texts and FB

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Reading your post makes me realise you could be lying. If you were popular you have to have good social skills.so why do you find it so hard to talk to people who are meant to be your friends?

lol actually Abdul that's not entirely true. In high school I was never THE most popular guy in school but I was friends with pretty much everyone. I did have good social schools with people I did not have feelings for but the girls that I did have feelings for , boy was I lost... SO he might not be lying lol

hey maktiz- I was in the same situation as you not too long ago. I was always the well known and generally liked good-guy in highschool. Here is the best general advice I can offer you about getting with girls who knew you in highschool:

-group situations are always good for re-establishing contact with girls. Organize a barbecue with a bunch of people. Make sure to invite some dudes too, just not any who may out amog you. This will give you a pretty good idea as to what your options are. (Usually the girls who bother to show up are the ones youll have better chances with.)

-Establish your success by talking about how well you did in your first year. Dont be a snob about it but make it known. Also talk about an offer you got from some big company (related to your major, of course) for a summer internship. This is useful because you can use it to set up a false time constraint on having a girl meet you for a date later on. Then once she realizes that you never leave town you just say that it was a great offer but you dont want to relocate to LA or NYC or wherever.

Those should have you off to a decent start. From there on just stick to your usual game. The biggest point is to just make sure they know that you are the new and improved YOU 2.0.

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Today is the day that tomorrow never sees
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hey maktiz- I was in the same situation as you not too long ago. I was always the well known and generally liked good-guy in highschool. Here is the best general advice I can offer you about getting with girls who knew you in highschool:

-group situations are always good for re-establishing contact with girls. Organize a barbecue with a bunch of people. Make sure to invite some dudes too, just not any who may out amog you. This will give you a pretty good idea as to what your options are. (Usually the girls who bother to show up are the ones youll have better chances with.)

-Establish your success by talking about how well you did in your first year. Dont be a snob about it but make it known. Also talk about an offer you got from some big company (related to your major, of course) for a summer internship. This is useful because you can use it to set up a false time constraint on having a girl meet you for a date later on. Then once she realizes that you never leave town you just say that it was a great offer but you dont want to relocate to LA or NYC or wherever.

Those should have you off to a decent start. From there on just stick to your usual game. The biggest point is to just make sure they know that you are the new and improved YOU 2.0.

_________________
Today is the day that tomorrow never sees
and if you live in yesterday's world you'll never be free