Alright I found this girl on the women seeking men section not casual encounters section of craigslist. I chose to respond to her ad because she seemed like the kind of girl I actually like and even wouldnt mind dating. She seemed laid back and not testy at all (should have thought about the fact that it said she was from McClean VA before hand). Alright this is how its gone down so far.

Her post on CG:
A taste for your senses.. - 21 (McLean)

I'm very sweet, funny, down to earth woman. I'm curious to see where all the good guys went to. I love going to hear live music particularly jazz, although I've done my share of metal concerts too. Looking for a guy with a great sense of humor who doesn't take himself or life seriously. Someone who's a big teddy bear, sweet but tough, who can appreciate meeting and knowing a cool lady. Hope to talk to ya soon!



I wrote in an email (my email is basically my name):
Senses your taste. (craigslist reply)

Hi,

You seem like really cool person. To clear up your curiosity a little bit, I've been in Fairfax the whole time =). But anyway I am a very laid back, down to earth guy, who loves to joke around and take it easy. Life is way too short to stress over the little things. I will have to agree with you, live music is awesome, especially if there's a big festival type concert going on. Now I can tell by your photo that you are very beautiful, but I've learned that looks isn't even close to everything, so if you had to pick 3 things that made you unique/awesome that have nothing to do with aesthetics, what would they be? Alright now lets play a game, try to guess my name. haha ya I'm like that =). Well I hope to hear back from you.

Sincerely,

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Her responce:
RE:
whew sooooooo many responses what makes you special? i live in AU Park what about you? what i want is a guy who likes to fulfill fantasies!! im going to american university (go blue crew!!) but the boys there are totally lame they have no clue what to do in bed ... theres a lot of fakes on craiglsist so i hope your real! just call me and lets get to know each other

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Brenda Bishop
My Homepage
"Some people come into our lives, leave footprints in our hearts, and we are never ever the same."


She never actually put her number down but her page is
brendabishop . com


Any help or constructive critisism is greatly appreciated.

I wouldn't call her just yet. If you do, you're letting her control the frame since she told you to call. I would send her another e-mail and tease her that she didn't respond to your question of 3 things that make her unique and that she didn't even take a guess at your name. Play with her a little and then call her on your terms so you can control the frame.

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