OK, youve officially opened a target through the internet =)
You could go lines and lines on the opener, and figure out the best way to answer sometimes is, NOT TO DO SO.
Remember the part about stacked material?... even if your opener is good, you cant rely on the opener itself to take you anywere.
Now think of another opener , story or transition..
You have to, why? because your cover has been blown out, she has thrown a bait to you... now she knows that you like her, and thats a boost to her ego, so she just leaves her answer open " its me".... waiting for you to answer "oh my gosh you are beautiful... blah blah... lets meet... blah blah.. do you have msn?... blah blah..." therefore acknowledge the fact that she is pretty and you are after her, which will turn you into an everyday AFC comment... GUYS pursuing GIRLS...
But hey, you dont have to answer her directly, just leave it open and work your mind fast, look her photo, what is she wearing?...is she holding her cellphone?... right hand or left hand?... does she look tall?.. color of hair??.... then you can elaborate on those factors....
Giving her a response like... "oh my then its you... do you know what they say people who hold their camera/cellphone with their right hand??..."....".... I knew it was you... by the way, you already know what they say about girls using ugly white tops right??..."...
those are only examples of an asnwer that will indirectly accept the fact that you like her, but you dont let her know a second time, letting her know that you like her for a 2nd time would reinforce the idea that you are after her.
Better make a comment on her clothes, accesories, body language, hair, face, the place shes at in the pic.... comments but no compliements
The idea about it is, to make her know that , yes! you like her, but that doesnt imply that youre going after her just as the other puppy dogs like doing it.." give me your msn beauty... i want you... you re so hot.. blah blah":..... instead...
try to come up with a coment that doesnt give her your immediate validation
maybe even a story... "you remember me of a friend who loves to take pictures of her and her dog, and she would invite me to her place and always took pictures of the two of us and her DOG... the damn DOG was always there !!!.... and you kinda look like a Dog lover..."
weird huh?... just come up with differetn stories, openers, transitions, and dont answer her hoops directly, always go around her hoops and switch to another subject, or at least put up a new hoop for her to jump tru...".. ok then next time you take a picture write on a piece of paper " I love sushi " and take your pic holding that paper, it would be nice to know its really you...".... although this one shows interest, its at the same time a hoop you want to see her comply !!....
and if you like it, just as diggidoyo said... if she by any chances goes with the lines refering to herself in third person......
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My next message to her is "Shweet! Tell her, um, she has [your choice]" You can go with amazing sense of style or something if you want to stay away from her looks, but I usually stay on the direct route and say "tell her she has gorgeous eyes and sexy lips."
Then, finish it off with this line, "OH! but don't say it was from me"
PEACE !!!