Hi, Im from sweden and I'm 16 years old so excuse me my spelling. It is this girl, I've been her classmate for six year now and I have liked her for a long time now but because of the fact that we see each other every day We're probably in the ''friend zone''. The thing is that for the last month it has been some sort of connection between us and some of my friends and her friends have asked me f there's something between us. Fo two weeks ago I made out with another girl beacause of no further succes with my ''real love''. Anyway two days ago I told her about it in hope of making her jealouse. I said it on the phone ( textmessing) I I noticed that she seemed a little bit jealouse bevause she said: so what are you going to do tonight? (it was a friday) and I said I just was going to chill. And she said: me to, I,m home alone and it's sooo boooring I hate those days. I understood that she said that beacaus she wanted me to aks her if we couldhang out, at least that was the way I understood it. So stupid as I am I asked her if we could do something so I went to her apartment and we watched a movie and the O.C. And was showing her that I liked her, we held hand and we were very closed but she's playing me hot and cold because she turned her body a luttle bit away from me so I moved closer her again so in that way I think she knew that I ''still'' liked her even if I made ut with another. Now she have been very off not show me any interest. My question is if I played it wrong. Maybe I should answer her message like this instead: Okay, yes It's not funny to be home alone. Watch tv or something, it makes you feel less alone. Because if I had done it in that way maybe she would chase me and not the atoher way around. And my second question is- what is the best thing to do now? To make the st of the situation? Mvh / Jakob

It seems that you have a serious case of oneitis. The best solution would be to go and sarge other girls and concentrate on improving your game. Your "love" got jealous because you won over another girl, you have to let her know that you can get any girl you want. You have to make her compete for you. Show less interest in her, this will make her try harder to gain your interest back and then just move from there.

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