At the moment I have a temporary job on a university working as a helpdesk-employee.

From time to time some REALLY nice looking girls come in to have something fixed; ranging from problems with usernames/passwords to wireless internet access on their laptops.

I always try to start a conversating with them but I tend to run out of things to say after a while.

The last girl went something like this:

HB: Hey there I lost my username to my account but I do have the password
Me: Ok that's interresting, most times it's the other way around (big smile)
HB: Yea I know blabla
Me: (Thinking deeply) Ok this is new let me think on how to figure this out. Ok I'll have to call the second line support, do you have some kind of ID?
HB: (Grabs her ID, shows it to me, I get to know the girls name) There you go.
Me: Alright thanks, let me see, so your (name is) M*****.
HB: Yea that's right
Me: Alright I'll have to make a call in order to fix this. So which training (don't know the real english word for that, but like complete study) do you take anyway?
HB: Ohh I'm doing this and that and this and that and currently I'm in my final year and I'm having a traineeship at ***Some location***.
Me: Alright nice (locking up, so:) I'll go make the phone call now.
--> Calling the other guys at the helpdesk and verifying the stuff, getting the user id.
Me: Alright so here's your username
HB: Thanks
Pointless chit-chat
She leaves

FUCK:(

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At some point earlier in time I had a foreign student, also really good looking and I came really far with her. She told me that she didn't have much contacts in the region and such and I made the big mistake of saying:

"Well maybe you could give me your cell-number, we could hang out sometime:)"

I think that's the line I screwed up on. I think it would've been better if I had said:

"Well I think you're a really interresting girl, is there any chance we could continue this conversation".

Thanks in advance for any help!

I think ur more or less just running work scripts on her and not seduction scripts.

U need to practice conversational technique to show intent, if u wanna start gaming girls at work u got to be viewed as that "kool, sexy and funny guy who helped with my laptop" not "that guy in IT support"

U need to effectively start using my suggestive language, gaming more, showing more intent and being more direct about the "conversation within the conversation" the hidden part that she reads and doesnt hear...

Zikki, first of all I'd like to thank you for responding

Your completely right about the 'work script'. The thing is that it is unlogical to inmediatly jump into a seduce script. (Which by the way I don't think I got any:P)

Maybe I'm aiming too high for the moment. I've just finished a 6 year relationship and hardly have any experience with pickin up girls.

Do you think I should pick easier targets; as in clubs? Or wouldn't it make a difference.

I came up with a strategy like this for clubs:
- Open set with something like "Hey you girls think Tatoo's are cool, I'm thinking of getting on my shoulder blabla"
- Let them speak
- Ask general stuff "So where are you from anyway etc."
- Ask them if they wanna see a trick (I bring my cards with me )
- Get a wing to take control over the other girl
- Try to be cool and get a #-number

Yet of course this isn't gonna work in a school-environment. You think you could give me some idea's/pointers?

Thanks in advance!!!

"Maybe I'm aiming too high" + "Do you think I should pick easier targets" = self defeating attitude

There is no limit on how high u can aim or which targets you should go for,

No target is easy as much as no target is impossible.

Ive beded a HB9 with blatant lines withing 35mins,
Ive been knocked back by a 6 when I been in full swing...

Life isnt consistent and neither is pickup. The only thing consistent shud b ur mindset, u can and u will....

I dont think it so much scripting, but to be honest whenever im in coversation with a woman I maintain a fun flirty feel, I work with women constantly and they are alot easier to deal with after u charm them and make a point of talking to them etc and treating them right.

If u try building natural flirting into every conversation u have with the opposite sex, then over time ur mentality and language when u talk to a woman will slowly change with it.

The techniques I teach are learnt over time, theres no instant fix in my eyes, u can paper the cracks but the crack still there. Im talking bout smashing the rock open and starting all over again, with a solid foundation and top quality building materials.

NLP my friend, learn it and love it !!