A little backround. We've already gone out, comfort and kino is there. No problemos, although we've come to stand off. We text alot, but their seems to lack something, don't know what it is. Its almost as if she is unsure.

So after trying to schedule a Day 3, she has work and stuff, and it's no lie because we work at the same place. But she sends me a text message saying she is not tring to blow me off but that she is going to be really busy over the next couple of weeks.
I basically say cool. And she sends a message saying she is sorry.
Thats kinda of puzzling me as to why someone needs to apologize. So I wanted to send her a message that would kinda of set most of this straight.

Just to make sure were both on the same page. here is why I got, and i want to dissect it, to make sure what am I sending is a clear message, that I just want to have fun with this girl.


"Your thinking about this too much, I dont want you to be sorry. I want you to have fun.Everything I do, revovles around having a good time, and I want to hang with you because your a cool girl, who enjoys having fun."

what do you guys think? should I just freeze out or send this?

Avenge me,

thats a tough one.
either way could backfire. you sound like you want to know where she stands in you guys' friendship. just for that reason i would send a message like that. freezing her out could push her away.

naw dude, dont send that. at this point, she doesnt know what's up. so she's playin it safe by tellin you sorry, but she still wants to chill. ur best bet is just to be like "sounds good. hit me up when ur free, and if u catch me when im free, then we could make something happen"


i dont think she's reading into it too much, i think you are.