And i looked down to my withering father of thousands and realised i dident even have a boner =( i was licking that pussy and she was loving it, she even tried giving me a blowjob to try stimulate me...but i was a broken man. i had like, 3 beers that evening, n thats it...However, after a little break i sprung to life and she straddled that shit hard. But after a few minutes i was going limp, I thought it was the condoms, restrictingmy blood flow, but even after trying to have sex without it, i was still going soft...
Whats wrong with me?! this girl was hot as hell and i just couldent perform =( anyone else ever had this problem? or even a solution?

Keep some viagra in your pocket just in case lol

Two pop sickle sticks and a strip of ductape for emergencies....LOL

I've heard bout guys poppin in videos and such, though I have never had this problem....

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Yeah this happened to me as well - there was a struggle to get the condom on in the dark, and it went limp, found out the next day that the condoms didn't fit my girth hahaha they were pretty small condoms
Besides that I think I was having a similar problem as well the nights before that - it wasn't getting hard easily, initially thought it was due to bike riding causing impotence... now I'm thinking it could be desensitization by porn.
Try staying off porn for a while...

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here is a solution that really worked for me.............

horny goat weed (one capsule) you can break the capsule and have it has a tea. Abstain from mastrubation or sex for three days before the encounter, have a HG tea everyday with one capsule, as a tea.

maybe you're gay lol

it's all in your head, man. no need for drugs or any other substances. it's just performance anxiety. everyone gets it from time to time.

just breathe and be present in the moment. most of these kinds of problems come from too much thinking and not enough feeling.

Been there, done that, totally cost me a ONS.

The best solution is just to try to take control of the situation so you can RELAX and breathe. Get her to give you head, or pace it until you find yourself aroused.

Screaming at your dick "WORK, YOU FUCKER, WHAT'S WRONG WITH YOU!" Does not help, you need to pace and relax at this point.

No one on this forum can tell what the problem is; just go see your doctor. At the very least, he'll help you rule out some of the possible causes. If he prescribes ED meds, give 'em a shot.

In my experience, the big V is a godsend. Even if my occasional problems were "all in my head," the confidence from knowing that I had guaranteed wood relaxed me and allowed me to perform without anxiety.

When youre young there are multiple factors that can lead to impotency:

-Mental (Performance) anxiety
-Not really attracted to that individual
-Too much alcohol
-Fatigue
- Too much masturbation

I suggest Kegel exercises. For some it has been a disadvantage, but it has dramatically changed my sex game. Also if your going out sarging stay away from the porn and masturbation. The longer you reframe from it, the better off youll be when it comes to the real thing. I learned that the hard way

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