Hey there fellow PUAs,

So i have been formulating a theory as to how the relationship between a girl and her dad affects what kind of guys she will be into. This theory has some basis in modern psychology, but its still seems a little out there so just bear with me.

Ive been studying relationship patterns in all the women I talk with and I have seem to notice a connection as far as the relationship with her parents( most importantly her father) and what kind of guys she responds to most romantically. we all the know "the jerk" or "badboy" phenomena in which that women are naturally attracted to assholes. In theory these "jerks" are so successful with women because they DHV, have social proof, pre-selection etc.. However Ive noticed that the girls that have a bad relationship with their dads tend to fall for bad boys or guys who tend to mimic her father's character more easily. Women who didnt have a father figure in their lives will look for dominant older guys that mimic the father figure she lacks. Or maybe even girls with overprotective dads will subconsciously look for the same kind of guy (this may be the hardest to believe).

So what are your thoughts on this theory? have any of you PUAs noticed a familiar pattern? or maybe have criticism?

Divinorum.

yea, i defiently see where you are coming from. i mean from the guys prospective we seek out females that resemble our mothers, if our mothers are caring, nurturing etc etc these are the traits that we look for in a partner, or so i believe, so the connection from parents to lovers could be quite clearly seen if you aim to identitfy them from our own points of view. thats a point i bought up with a friend of mine ages ago that we, as men seek out that same consistancy of what our mothers provided for us to what we look for in a partner... so i believe if it is the same for females, which logic would stand to say itis, then there could be a link between the two.

but saying that, you must realise that, from a young age, our mothers have a bigger influence on us then our fathers, they are the ones that spend time feeding, changing etc etc so the connection may be greater between the mother and her child. so to say the father figure would have the same sun-concious affect on the daughter in that way may be at a stretch.

but i for one believe that on some level, it does have a sub-concious affect on what partners women choose based upon their upbringing and father figure in their early life.

I Strongly agree with this......
when i was going out with my ex her parents were divorce she lived with her mother. Her father neglected her so she was always down on herself i jumped in and was the greatest thing that ever came along. but i don't recommend getting involved in something like this. this girl was so hot! i loved her gymnast ass. these circumstances are good to hit it and quit it but don't jump into a relationship

it turns out she was a secret slut not saying all girls who fathers neglect them are like this she always keep tabs on me and when we broke up she threw rocks at my window and hit herself in the head completely insane!

this is just one situation that relates it just so happens to be a bad example but thats the last time i try and show a girl what happiness is like