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| dynex | PostPosted: Tue Dec 16, 2008 12:07 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Wed Dec 10, 2008 5:52 pm Posts: 11 | | Background.
I've always had ballz... but my pickup game consisted of dancing with girls and hoping they approve of (what i consider) pretty good looks. Im average height ( 5-8 ), with Caucasian facial features (I'm Asian) so I do have a very ambiguously asian (almost of mixed racial background). I've also worked hard to obtain an athletic build.
As most decent looking people know... This method will be successful maybe 50% of the time.
The problem however... is whenever i opened my mouth they soon walked of (probably due to disinterest).
What inspired me?
I was inspired to become a PUA after getting my heart broken by a gf of over 2 years... (Just a few months ago). During this time I've lost contact with most of my friends.
I started a path of self improvement.
1. Trained harder in the gym.
2. Got driving lessons (yes... as sad as that sounds for a 24 year old I am just starting...).
3. Went back to school (finishing up my Bachelor of Arts)
4. Picked up The Game by Neil Strauss
In this thread I will make a Journal of my journey of trying to master the ways of a "PUA".
My intentions.
My intention is to improve my social life. I want to expand my social circle and find the right one for me to spend the rest of my life with.
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| dynex | PostPosted: Tue Dec 16, 2008 12:43 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Wed Dec 10, 2008 5:52 pm Posts: 11 | | This post will detail the happenings of my weekend.
(Fri Dec 12 & Sat Dec 13)
Friday...
note: This is my first day... I didn't even complete the book. So whats going on here is me just roughly using elements of the book I remembered in order to talk to women.
A semi-complete failure! But i learned from my mistakes none of the less...
I went to a club alone. All my friends were busy but i was itching to try what I've learned from The Game (Neil Strauss).
1. I approached 2 girls.
I pulled the "pick a number between 1-10" trick... To my amazement it actually worked (probably all luck... I skimmed through that part). I was able to use this to get them to talk to me. But I don't think I was very good @ selling it to keep their attention. B/c soon after she said "hey there's my friend" and just walked off.
2. I approached another group of girls and this time... I simply asked them all "How long have you all known each other?". surprisingly... a simple concept of approaching the entire group of girls rather then singling one out helped me improve responses. They all answered the question. I asked them how long they've known each other, and started talking about random stuff.
From there I was able to build rapport... I got their names, and even their personality type.
Using what I built here... I bumped into one of the girls from the group later on. We spend part of the night dancing & chatting it up.
Saturday...
My Saturday was much more successful... But I will type out the details later...
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| dynex | PostPosted: Tue May 05, 2009 7:58 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Wed Dec 10, 2008 5:52 pm Posts: 11 | | Kino Escalation.
Saw two fine looking girls @ the club.
I approached them both collectively. I opened with something random.
"I have something I wanted to tell you. But I only have a moment, I was suppose to meet me friends @ the patio in a few minutes"
"yeah. what is it?"
"Before i continue, I'd like to introduce myself... My name is XXX"
She didn't believe me. She thought it was a fake name.
me:Why... Did you want to check my ID?"
Girl:haha okay..."
Me: Its in my pocket you gotta get it though..."
girl:Sure. which one?"
Me: Its in the back one"
She reaches her hand into my back pocket
Me: Way to get your hands on the prize... I was only joking about that. I wanted to see if you wwere actually gonna do it!
We laughed it up and had stuff to talk about before I *left*.
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