my girl always tell me about her encounters and because of this i feel secured being with her.
until recently i found out she has been talking to one guy which she never mentioned to me before. at first, they talked through the net and gradually they like each other. they are from different country and this guy actually took a plane and came to look for my girl. this guy has motives, he actually asked my gf to be his lover when he came over. i keep probing and end up she broke off with me. after 3 weeks she wants me back and because i love her so much and i accepted it. so i assumed she doesnt talk to that guy anymore but i found out after that guy returned to his country, they talk on the phone almost everyday. when i give her back my trust, she violate it. what should i do. i am fuckin hurt

Man that's a sticky situation. I just went through a similar one myself.

I think that you have to base your decision on the girl. Why do you think she started talking to the other guy online? I know it's rough, but you have to think about if there was anything you were doing that pushed her away. If you can't think of anything, and it seems that she was taking you for granted, not the other way around, then I think you should dump her and move on.

Girls that do things with shady guys on the internet are probably pretty shady themselves. Quality females don't typically need to look outside their own country to find a suitable mate. So maybe you should set your standards higher for yourself?

Granted I don't know all the facts of the situation, but based on the impression I got from your post I'd say that's probably the best move. Best of luck man.

You have to somehow prove to her that if she doesn't take this relationship seriously, she will lose you forever.

Even though you love her so much, you have to realize that your relationship has to be taken seriously.

her school term just start and she doesnt have time to talk to that guy anymore. but her friend told me that she was sad and stuff. what is she trying to show me? we're all good together and behind me she's talking to another boy outside her country and when she didnt get to talk to him, SHE GOT SAD?! wtf. ??? i feel i got 2 timed!

relationship over. get rid of her. you wont ever be able to trust her in the future.
find someone better who values you.

talk to her and ask her what's up. spice things up again, maybe she got bored with your usual routines.

talk to her and ask her what's up. spice things up again, maybe she got bored with your usual routines.

talk to her and ask her what's up. spice things up again, maybe she got bored with your usual routines.

talk to her and ask her what's up. spice things up again, maybe she got bored with your usual routines.

Dude, enough with the spam.

bored with routine.
you shouldn't look onto others for entertainment. just go do entertaining things together.

Let her choose between you and him, simple but effective. If she choose you then make her swear not to do it again and if she choose him, move on and find someone else who you can trust and give you the love you deserve.

Let her choose between you and him, simple but effective. If she choose you then make her swear not to do it again and if she choose him, move on and find someone else who you can trust and give you the love you deserve.

I know what that's like man. I've been in similar situations myself.

The best advice I can give you is to go out and talk to girls other than her. Nothing makes a girl appreciate a good thing like making her work to keep it.

Look up the "wuss cure" by David DeAngelo and follow it to a T.

Stop talking to her as much and find some new girls to talk to. If she complains about it, tell her that it's only fair b/c she's talking to other dudes. Also be sure to project that it doesn't bother you that she talks to this other guy, and mean it. Being jealous about it only makes her want to do it more.