ok so i met this girl last week at a party, got her number and we've been texting on and off since. she does not seem responsive or putting much into her texts back to me what should i do?

i tried some-what of negs. i dont think they are grabbing her attention so much.

HIGHSCHOOL

heres the text chat.


me:hey stranger. you just popped into my head so hi....now please stay outta there.
her:Hey il stay out of ur head
me:Haha ok PLEASE do so....O yeah and im on break now!
her:Lucky. Im on break after tmrw lol
me:Girl im so 3008 u so 2000 late
her:I dnt care
me:Aw. Ur supposed to be mad about that. Ive never gotten that reaction b4
her:Theres a first 4 everythn
me:Hahah. Ur diffrent from most girls....i like that
her:Lol


HELPP what should i say now/do? i want her to be attracted to me
i need your help PLEASE

anyone? please help

sometimes cutting losses is a must..

i'd either switch the style up, or just call her and try to use some jokes

the way u started off the convo wasnt bad, and u got a good response. it clearly went bad after the 2000 and late line. I agree with Dach that sometimes cutting ur losses is a must. im guessing u only really want this grl to be attracted to u cuz u dont have tooo many grls in ur life (no offense, were all tryna do better in our love life). The BEST option would be to continue practicing ur game. JUST SQUEZZE AS MANY INTERACTIONS WITH FEMALES INTO AS SHORT A TIME AS POSSIBLE. Forget abt getting an outcome, just focus on interacting with females. Itll all start to click.

BUT....i no thts not reallly the answer u were looking for...For future notice, u need to make sure ur not giving her IOIs if she is giving u IODs. she said 'i dont care' and u gave a kind of emotional answer. U showed u care too much. Then on top of that when she gave u another not so good response "theres a first for evrything" u gave her a straight up IOI. Dont do tht, dude. if she IODs, then u IOD.

u should move on, but if u wana give it one more shot, (give it another shot with a 'it doesnt even matter, but wht-the-hell, i might as well try just to see what happens' type of attitutde.) Try teasing her. First wait a day or two so u dont seem try hard. Then try txting her by saying something like "omg, i just saw this movie and it reminded me of u" She'll say "what movie" You say "some random movi on tv, but there was this adorrable little puppy tht whined just like u" She'll b like "awww" Try to tease her a little but more. Pick out something she did or said and call her dorky for it. (IT DOESNT HAVE TO ACTUALLY BE DORKY. I DOESNT MATTER). Just call her dorky for SOMETHING. It can be the way she spelled something, what she said, the emoticon she used, or just simply say "the picture i have of u in my head right now is so dorky." U can then say its cute. (i.e the fact that shes dorky is cute). this will start to sexualize the teasing. when shes lauhing or saying "HEy IM NOt a dork!" (which, btw is a flirtatious response) or whtevr good response shes giving u, then mention something fun (bowling, art gallery,party, bar/club, festival, ) or some other cool thing that u would b doing with or without her, and invite her along.

REMEMBER: inviting a grl to go somewhere is a compliance test. IT IS ALWAYS A GOOD IDEA TO PUMP BUYING TEMPERATURE BEFORE TESTING FOR COMPLIANCE. thats y I suggest the teasing (teasing is a good way to pump BT)


hope this helps a little, let us know how it goes,
PEACE!

My critique...
You opened with an IOI which isnt always bad but it didnt work in your favor here.
Nice job changing the subject to break but then things went south. It seems that you didnt have very much value when you met her so you should be DHVing yourself now. Tell her about all the cool things ur doing on break besides thinking of her.

After that she says how she doesnt care and you dlv yourself. You coulda turned it bak on her and said somthing like oh youd just rather be in school cause you know that your break is gonna be so lame.
Then you give her another IOI which NEVER reward a girl after she disses you like that.
Good luck bro

Sorry dawg, but there no attraction. If u noticed, all her replys showed no intrest to continue the coversation that means she is not intrested in u as a whole. IT SUCKS BRO I KNOW!

ya man I'm sad to agree with the above posters but it's true you should cut ur losses and just work on ur overall game

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that is probably some of the worst text game I've ever seen. the only advice I would give you is probably study the phone texting game and as well whenever a girl is non responsive then don't text back. It seems like you wished she would of said something you wanted her to say when you told her that wasn't the response you were looking for.

Also I think if you tell a girl that you were thinking of her then she might be creeped out.

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she is not responsive at all really going by that but I would call her instead of texting man its a better way to gauge if she is responsive or not. some just don't like text convo's I know lots of girls that hate them

best of luck mate

God damn, PUA forum, giving advice, and everyone misses the obvious.

Dont talk to her like your 7 years old/text nerd. If i hollar at some chick saying "Hay how r u baybe? versus "Hey how are you babe? which is going to make me sound more like a man and less like a kid. Its just a maturity issue, very similar to that of a wigger kid who straight talks ridiculous slang that everyone shrugs at because its fucking

That and she straight up brick walls you each time you message her. Each of her responses has no cue to continue on the conversation....almost like she could care less what your saying to her .