how many times do you meet your gf in one week? despite having to live 15mins away from each other, i only meet her once every week. we've been together for 3 years, can i say that she got bored of me? because whenever i ask her out, she would say she's lazy to come out. how can i make her take the effort to ask me out.

Since you only see her "once a week" you better make those meetings something that she can remember and hold onto for the rest of the week and she will be HOPING for the chance to next see you again. Hence, the gift of missing you. But if you do not give her anything to miss you are just a spark in her head that she forgets about.

It sounds like you want to see her more than the other way around.

Besides for seeing her once a week, do you speak with her at all via phone or text? I find that texting is always a great way to get a girl hot and horny and can't wait to see me again because she knows that I have intent and knows what will be in store for her.

we do text but she's always busy with her online games. I really need her to get off from her comfy computer chair. and because of the game, she's talking to this guy everyday on msn/phone which makes me damn upset. ive to do something before anything happens

Hmmm that doesnt sound very good, she does not seem interested in devoting time to you. What game does she play online? And how does a normal text conversation between you two go? Do you have sex every time you see her when u meet up?

Make her remember why she started dating you man. Go back to the roots.

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