Ok so I am 16 and in high school, and haven't hooked up with anyone as of yet. It really wasn't until this year that I've started flirting with girls on and off, and I could use advice for getting one of them.

I didn't know her until this year, but I'm in a few classes with her and sit next to her and am her lab partner in science. I spent most of the first half of the year getting to know her better, but wasn't really interested in picking her up. I started to get interested in her eventually when i noticed we would often be touching arms or feet or shoulders during labs and in the desk we share.

As we got more confortable with eachother, (I guess the above is "kino", I started talking to her more and noticed I could almost always make her laugh during our conversations. So we went on talking and I'd make her laugh alot, and then during spring break she texted me asking what Iw as doin for 4/20. (I guess she found out I sometimes smoke and stuff.). I said I'll be hanging with some friends and asked her if she wanted to come but she was on a college trip, but said she wanted to hang out later in the week. Unfortunately, it never worked out because we were both busy but we said we would have to some other time.

Anyway, I found this site a little after that break and decided to try some of the stuff out. This friday she texted me asking me what I was doing, and after a bit I ended up teasing her and then sort of insulted her jokingly. (The "neg"). She ended up saying, "ugh, your so mean, im not gonna talk to you any more," to which I replied
"good." She was like, "ugh so rude", and then I texted her saying "your still talking?"

She stopped but after an hour texted me again and I sort of teased her about coming back to talk to me and then was nice to her again.

Anyway, am I approaching this right and what should I do? I would love to f@ck this girl, and the conversation i just mentioned was the first time I used the neg, (at least I think I did.) Right now we are still just friends.

This is classic for guys that are new to the game.
They think they have to neg neg neg neg.
Once you have attraction(like you have) there is no need to neg so much.
Also important to reward her if she's behaving in a good way.
If you tell a dog to sit and it sits and you hit it with a stick the dog doesn't know what is right or wrong. get it?

Hi, Welcome to the community!

First of all negs are very overrated. You are supposed to neg a girl to bring her status down. Personally i neg a girl if i am given a shit test (shit tests are when a girl might put you in a tight spot,maybe "you look gay" questions that you have to think quick to answer")

The next thing about negs is that if you do too many you might come off as desperate. This is what you did you negged her then turning nice agian after she said "i ain't talking to you again your mean" because you suddenly turned nice so abruptly without even realizing it, you have literally apologized for your behaviour.

Hang around the forum. Some great advice on here

Sounds like she already likes you, or is on her way to it so there is no need to neg. Just concentrate on kino escalation( that is escalating touching her into from a pat on the shoulder to kissing or more) and being fun to be around. Also remember to take it slow if she is 16 chnces are she will take some time to entice into the sack if sober, and sober is better, so dont push too hard too fast and dont feel bad if she rejects you for more than a kiss.

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You don't neg in HS game

I can't stress this enough. Most girls still feel insecure at the age of 16.
What will happen if you neg them? They'll turn introvert and there will be no enjoyable conversations untill she gets her grip back.

From what I read you were doing a good job. Untill you negged

Get things good between you and her and invite her over to watch a movie at your place. Start escalating and close.

i to am 16 so ill tell you what ive learned
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if your going to neg it has to be at the right time. since you already talk to her and you can make her laugh you dont really need to neg her. youd want to neg her maybe if shes being bitchy and she thinks shes better then you. basically you want to tease her as if shes your little sister, demonstrate high status and escalate things using kino. when she said that you are mean and she wasnt going to talk to you and you said good that might of been a little harsh. you basically need to imply that you are the shit and she wants you. also dont just stick to gaming this one girl, talk to others, if you can show you are friends with other good looking girls she will wants you even more.

My point exactly. Fuck negs, only guys that "think" they are lower than the woman need to neg them to lower her down to his level. And girls aren't dumbf*^ks ! they know wether they want you or not within like 30 sec of talking to you. Don't be one of those creepy guys like most of the PUA community.

Alright thanks everyone. I haven't talked to her as much as before lately but we decided that she would come over my house once school gets out.

I have been a bit confused actually, quite frankly, as there's this other guy she has been friends with a really long time who she seems sort of attached too. He is weak and a bit overweight and completely reeks of AFC attributes; he is shy, not a leader, and overly apologetic. Yet she often goes up to him and like touches his shoulder and stuff, in which case I get really internally pissed off.

Like she is still really responsive to my teasing and stuff, and I'm still always able to keep her laughing, but I'm just wondering if this guy is a potential obstacle.

When she comes over I plan on making sure we have fun/making a move if things are going well, and then suggesting we go to NYC together the next day. If she is seeing this long term friend at all I do know for a fact he's never done anything that exciting with her. Any advice I should do. I don't really think they're bf and gf but they seem sort of close, and it has been turning me off from my previously more aggressive flirting and such.

U dont always have to flirt with her. U have to escalate physically and build a bond. As u start to escalate things, u will know where she stand in the relationship. Otherwise u will become the guy that flirts with her just for fun.

So u have to show interest and escalate things slowly. When she comes to ur place, kino escalate and see where it goes. If she shows disinterest at any point, dont get emotionally bothered by bit but just act unbothered.

Make sure she see u talking with other girls, u dont have to flirt with other girls but just talk.

Anyway gdluck....

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This is so true. I am 16 and in high school too and I can't stress enough how insecure most girls are.