Ok I will keep this simple!!!!

How do I build attraction???????? I can open no problem!!!! but build...no chance! My wing gets the other girl and I end up with nothing. He's building and i'm not, this is where he's a natural, so he's struggling to help me.

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Learn the principle, abide by the principle, and dissolve the principle. In short, enter a mold without being caged in it. Obey the principle without being bound by it. LEARN, MASTER AND ACHIEVE!!!

In order to build attraction you need to DHV
Find out what you're good in. Lie if you have to.
The game is also meant to pursue your goals so you can actually DHV with things that are congruent to your lifestyle. That will also help to deliver your DHV spikes with more enthusiasm.
DHV's can easily be found on the seduction fora/web so i'm not going to post them all here

No. Ok bro let me help you out. This might changd your views a little bit. But its ok, its meant to. First, attraction is NOT a choice.. You can not manipulate it. You can't force a girl to feel attraction towards you. Ie using "DHV" , stories, negs, whatever, thats all PUA jargon. IN REALITY, a girl will FEEL attraction for you within the first like 30 seconds to before you even go to open your mouth.

So while you are thinking in your head, "this girl, does she like me? is she feeling me? what should i say now? I wonder what she's thinking. If I DHV, will she like me then? ...........None of this should be running through your mind. Your thinking all these thoughts (or maby not, maby its subconscious) While your friend is feeling like "the man that these women want, with no doubts what-so-ever"... And the girls are picking up on this strong belief he has in himself, because of the signals he's giving off subconsciously. Your friend simply thinks he's the man more than you think YOUR the man.. Simply thats why they like him more than they like you. Been there done that.

Solution? First, you need to GET YOUR MINDSET CORRECT. (I strongly suggest cory skyy or someone else just as good), And work a little on your body language, but you can't be thinking about it, or it will be awkward and off putting making you worse than you are now.. And third, very simple. Take SOME action, Im pretty sure your already doing that anyway, so your good..

BUT, doing the action without the mindset will lead to failure. Because your player words won't be congruent with your body language and attitude. I have links for you, jst reply if your interested. It explains everything.