I like this girl in my residence hall, but she has a boyfriend in a different university. They are apparently very close. I'm not just trying to F-close; I actually like her in that way.

But I put myself in a sticky situation. I asked her friend out, but that friend said that she liked someone else. I was OK with that. Then I decided to go for the first girl proper. I've got quite a high social proofing - many girls have said they fancy me, I'm also the president of the resident's association in the hall.

Anyway, it got to her that I was interested in her. But she not saying anything verbally to confirm her interest in me, but she'll do subtle body language min-IOIs that tell me that she is interested. I've DHV'd plenty in front of her.

I realise that her boyfriend could be holding her back - even if she likes me. I've emailed her saying that I'm coming to her room next week. She has never really said: "No, don't come." I don't really know what to say to her. Because I could not make it more clear that I like her and want her to break up with her boyfriend. It may be the fact that I haven't spent that much time with her alone, so probably going to her room is a good thing. Her friends are also the hindrance because they like the boyfriend, who comes and visits every-so-often - he's a bit of a noob.

Any advice guys?

Hi!
I 'm almost in the same situation. I 'm sure of that she is attracted to me.

(I get a lot of IOIs. She flatter me and she listen me like a nail. We neg/kino/ each other and so on… And anywhere I go she follows me.)

We are good ,,friends" we know each other a long time ago ( almost half a year). We meet almost every day at the university.
I know that at the beginning of our friendship SHE was attracted to me but it was one sided.
But now I have feelings for her too.
I guess I’m probably horny because of spring .

So I hate this situation I would like to deal this as soon as possible.

How should I "seduce" her?

Get drunk with her is an option but we rarely get into situation like that. So I need some advice.

Thanks for your help.

First, don't get trapped in the one-itus. Go get 10 other girls' numbers before you even think about this girl again.

Second, remember two things about college relationships:
1. They end quickly.
2. People cheat on each other pretty often.

You most likely could fuck her. It would be much harder to get her to break up with her boyfriend. But don't fret: she will most likely be broken up with him in a month.

Either way, meet other girls. You'll forget about her and this will DHV even more to her.

I've already DHV'd to her with other girls.

The thing is she knows that everything I do involves me trying to get her to respond from her - she just allows me to do stuff but doesn't bark back at me. I need some line to say to make her think that me inviting her to do something is a neutral ask - because I seem to be making too much of the effort. In fact, I think I'm making all the effort - but she never says no to it.

Go for other girls and literally forget about her. It's one thing to use other girls as DHV, it's another to actually not be so interested in her and actually go after other girls.

Maybe once you are with another girl, she'll become more interested in you. Maybe not. Don't go for other girls in order to get her interested in you. Either way, you'll be with another girl, so she won't matter.