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I have this HB 8-9 in my class and today we were talking and everyone around was joking around and having a good time and then this kid sitting next to us pointed out that the HB was flirting with me because she was playing with her hair. After that was said she played it off by saying she always plays with her hair. But early i notice she engaging conversation with me, facing me, and initiated kino( her hand hit mine as she was talking with her hands so i dont think it was intentional). And even though she displayed all these things she just, she just got a boyfriend like 2 weeks ago. Can someone try to explain this to me?
SURE. It basically boils down to this.
WOMEN CAN NOT HELP WHO THEY ARE ATTRACTED TO, ANYMORE THAN YOU CAN!!!!! That is why this stuff works so damn well. You have probably heard the expression around the community,
"Attraction is not a choice." Well, guess what that statement holds water.
There are plenty of people we are attracted to. That doesn't mean we want to be with them all though. That is like being in love with someone but seeing Carrie Underwood in a magazine and thinking she's hot. It doesn't really mean anything she just can't help being attracted to you.
The power of attraction is a very interesting and powerful thing. Now with all this being said if she has a boyfriend I would let it go and find another girl to talk to, but that is just me. You can always escalate things to see what happens if you feel that you want to, but that is up to you obviously.
Jon
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