with some friends, and i see some other friends with some ladies, so i go and say watsup to my friends, and i saw a 7 smile at me, and i said do i know u? in a negging kinda way, and she said no, but im megan. anyways, i didnt wanna come of as a lame AFC and try and sit there with her at the other end of the table that i wasnt even eating at, so i said yea im **, and my other friend said that i was from SoFla, (i go to school at UF in gainesville), and she said me too, did u work at abercrombie, i throw another neg with a weird look and a no. anyways make a long story short, i was wondering should i find her on facebook? and if so should i wait or just go ahead and find her? or let her find me if i peaked her interest (which i think i did)...

thanks

Well first off your negs were a little strong there not just supposed to be complete shut downs, you should have disarmed the others and got some feedback from her there. In this case the only option you have is not to find her on facebook, but figure out who her friends are and hang out with them again because you would have a better chance in person. If all else fails find her on facebook because i mean whats the worst that could happen.

thanks, and i am new to this so ill work on my negs, and not make them as strong, how could i have disarmed the others?

Disarming women is easy. Talk to the men in the group more than the women OR atleast talk to all the women in the group equally (Except your target who you tend to talk LESS to until you get her isolated).