This one's feisty. She's looking for a FWB situation. Below is the message I sent, and the reply I got back. I got a reply, which is something at least, but she's definitely got her guard up, and I need to build some comfort! I'm thinking a comment about her bitch shield, or something along those lines, could work. I dunno, someone think of something clever!

My Message -

Damn, it's too bad you eliminate us 420 smokers right off the bat. We're good people. Not to mention I could have cuddled your brains out! Oh well.

I think you're full of crap anyway. You aren't looking for a FWB situation, you're just looking for the benefits! If you wanted a friend too, then you would have put some sort of info in your profile about what you like to do, what music you're in to, SOMETHING. I'm not saying there's anything wrong with just wanting a hookup, but at least be honest about it .

Good luck out there.

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Her Reply -

I leave out info for discretion. I've seen colleagues and friends on this very site and identifying information (like me working on a masters in biological and forensic anthropology) would give me away, because seriously how many people do that and even further... how many black females that are 23 and live in north hollywood do that. music, movies, tv, etc could too easily be compared to my myspace and facebook.

if i really just wanted the hookup part, i wouldn't include the friends part as that turns off a lot of guys and leaves me with less prospects. why would someone intentionally defeat the purpose of being able to find what theyre looking for?

so maybe you need to lay off the 420 so you can come up with viable, alternate situations as to why i'd leave personal info out. 'cause your "theory" is full of crap.