I feel so AFC right now! I've just met an Argentinian girl in a hostel and we've been seeing each other for about 2 weeks now. Everything was going really well, having lots of fun and practicing english and spanish with each other. She's just moved out of the hostel with friends and since then she's decided she needs space from me. So tonight I'm sleeping on my own in frustration! The problem is I've really fallen for this girl like no other for years. All the previous girls I could take or leave but this one I really like.

So I'm wondering what to do next. I'm gonna give her the freeze out I think and wait for her to contact me. We'll still see each other at work though, where she gets a lot of male attention. There's not much option for me to flirt with others there apart from her travel buddy and I get on with really well.

Or do I need to DHV or what???? agghhh

Well if she needs space, give it to her. Let HER contact you. You have to pretend as if this has no effect on you because you're in general a busy man.

If she likes you, she will contact you sometime soon. But you must NOT try to contact her. You will seem needy and that will be a DLV.

Yes I won't be contacting her although I will see her at work in the next couple of days so not sure what to do then.

The trouble is she is just starting her working holiday of a year and I have only 2 months left on mine. I made the stupid mistake of saying how I won't like it in 2 months when I have to go.

Try to preoccupy yourself and not think of her as much. go out, and try to get more numbers and girls dude and get your mind off her. seriously, if you keep like a trophy all polished you'll get nervous when you talk around her.

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Giovanni

I agree. I have learned that the only cure is to sarge. Get out and hunt!

Oh I forgot to mention that when we had our descussion about her needing space and said our goodbyes, I took away any affection and she got huggy. And out of the door she said I should text her. I said I may or may not and I haven't done.

The other problem is the town I'm in is really boring and can't really do a lot without money. I'm only here to try and save some dosh for the next travels.

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Well I've ridden the storm and she's just text me. A bit sooner than expected. It's a lame ass text: "What are you doing?" If I was to send that I'd probably be classed as an AFC!

So I'm gonna let her wait for a bit and then I might make up something ridiculous because I haven't really been doing anything in this duff town.

Dang man i hate when girls txt too

they send the smallest txts possible

I think ima get rid of it

doing more harm then good haha

OK, 2 nights ago I went round her new shared apartment and we had the most amazing night of sex. I felt so in love and she was acting the same. That same night she got pretty jealous when I mentioned I had to clear up some things with my ex.

The next morning though at work she blanked me all day and I felt like I was walking on egg shells. After a chat round hers tonight it turns out that she has been talking to the ex-boyfriend on the phone back home in Argentina who she said before that she didn't love anymore and they used to argue all the time. They only split a few weeks ago before she came travelling with a year visa but had been with him for 2 years. So tonight it was like talking to a different person and just a single hug and a pat on the back to say goodbye.

I was hoping for a couple of months of fun with her and see what happens but now there is this problem. I guess it's a case of either trying to build up the attraction again and use some ex-boyfriend destroyers?????? or time to leave this town cos I am so in love with her like nothing I can think back to.

Any help I would much appreciate and many thanks.

Well if you leave the town, you are going to sarge other girls and probably get her out of your mind because you don't really have any other option. But sarging new girls should do the trick.

On the other hand, I would just be there for her and talk to her about it. Considering you have already had sex with her, and your comforting her, you could probably say things like " Hey lets just forget about that and go out and have an awesome time" or something like that. If you can take her mind of that distraction, and your comforting her and having fun with her, Im sure that the next couple of months will be a lot more enjoyable.

However, if you are "in love" with her and u definatly have to break it off in 2 months, probably easier to do it now, rather than later. More time together is only going to make it harder.

Good luck

Classic case of one-itis

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