i have found out (thru mutual friends) that an hb i'm gaming thinks that her

boyfriend is "honest and caring". the hb has feelings for me and is very

attracted to me but thinks that i'm a player and have too many girls.



so how do i destroy the "honest and caring" boyfriend?

and do girls actually give a shit about "honest and caring"?? that sounds like an afc quality

they do care, but they need someone to take control.

a good bf destroyer is "it must be so nice to have someone who loves you and who waits around on you hand and foot and would do anything for you". she'll usually end up destroying him herself by saying "well he's not like that etc etc"

something along those lines usually works

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make her feel like she has caught you, out of all the girls you chose her, dont verbalise so you can bail without looking like a dick after you get her.

Also raise boyfriend on a pedistal too high and then bringt him down, compare him others better blah blah blah. make him look bad

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both of you guys are absolutely right, thanks

the hb destroyed her boyfriend herself by saying "no he's definitely not anywhere near perfect"

but how do i take it from there? i haven't emailed the hb back yet. how do i make her see that she should be with me?

just go back into normal convo after she tears her bf down. do this because its sort of a lil shit test she's doing, but without realising it, so its a big DHV.

don't try and make her see she should be with you, then she'll know what your up to.

i'd build comfort and rapport with her etc and slowly build up kino escalation

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i'll give it a shot

+rep

ive been in a similar situation a couple of days ago, the girl went from 'being in love' with her BF a couple of days ago to 'cant stand being with him'. i think i mightve overdone it abit since the HB was like 'looks like im gonna be single soon' with a smile before she left, and i have no interest in starting a relationship with anyone right now.

Basically whatever she tells you about her boyfriend, you have to manipulate the scenario to make it oppose her Eliciting Values, all the while making it not seem like your destroying her BF, basically downplay her BF's IOI's into IOD's & DLV's, therefore sub context is key.

The worst thing you can do to the image of her BF is making him look insecure about being with her (blow up her image against his, make HER reach the conclusion that hes an insecure prick who acts like a dick and doesnt deserve to be with her), be careful however not to dig in too deep into the BF issue, make sure you throw a pebble (that hits the target) and lay low. her body language show be a good indicator if you got her thinking about her BF.

make sure you move off the boyfriend subject with her ASAP and do not reopen the subject at a later point in the night because you're going to get stuck there and might make yourself look like a relationship counselor. i did the mistake of not moving off the subject once i hit my target, the result was the HB was nearly crying at the end of the night (not cool).

hope that helps!

This thread is why some PUAs scare me.

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not all PUA's do that, i personally don't like to break up a relationship because its harsh because i don't want one, so why ruin there's. but i do know how to if i need to in order to protect a friend or something of that sort.

i prefer to just game the girl as usual in order to get some action off of her but only on the one occasion unless she wants more. i know this is wrong too, but it isn't usually a relationship breaker with most couples that would last a while anyway

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bingo! thats the trick if a chick thinks your a player. that works for me EVERY time and actually is one of my main tools i use.
move on as though nothing with the boyfriend has happened. as long as she is thinking about him, your value is being lowered and his is rising. proceed with the game you would naturally run and DO NOT talk about the ex. The best thing you could do is DHV to make yourself become a better guy in her eyes. you dont want her to have a reverse sense of buyers remorse in which she regrets leaving the boyfriend. you need to take over his place as her main sexual male figure in her life.
hes not gaming somebodys wife or fiance. i see it as: if your intentions are well thought out and involve the females feelings more than your own, all women are fair game. it the girl is that attached to her relationship, it will be way too difficult to 'steal' the girl and frankly, not worth the time. chances are the PUA at some point will realize the chase isnt going to work out and give up. if not, the girl (or the boyfriend) will eventually blow him out themselves, sending the same message.

exactly lol

it's a high school relationship, those never last more than a few weeks anyway


thanks for all the tips
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Amen.

Being exposed to PUA material gives you a lot of power. Don't abuse it for no good reason other than getting ur dick wet.

If you really are a player with all these other girls, why do you feel the need to hurt an honest guy who cares about his gf? B/c she's hot?

It'd be one thing if you really had feelings for her, and thought he wasn't good for her, but it doesn't sound like that's the case at all.

i won't go into details about my situation with this girl because it's long and boring.

BOTTOM LINE: i love me. anyone else, i just DGAF
(except for family & real friends ) so don't be a flamer

Yea I suppose, scare was probably the wrong word to use, can't really think of the right one though. However I'm not really one to talk considering the number of married women I've fucked.
That's true, most high school relationships don't mean jack shit.
That's a disgusting attitude to have.

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Bear in mind this always - from the first few pages in "The Style Diaries" - I'm paraphrasing from memeory so...
"While the Rules of the Game can get you laid, married, loved and desired...they can also get you dumped, beaten, stalked, stabbed & shot. Use this material with care."

If you're truely not interested in a LTR with this woman and is someone that you are going to see almost everyday (like in school) don't play her like you are going to be her new BF just to dip your wick. It'll backfire spectacularly.

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