Here's the one that works pretty well for me:

I know we haven't met, but I think we should stop seeing each other...

Unless of course...

You think you can handle a man who's confident, successful, and doesn't apologize for who he is or what he wants?

Let me know,

Jarett

Hey.. how much traffic does this forum get?

I'm thinking maybe this isn't the best place for fast and an abundance of replies..

Either that or nobody has any good openers..

I feel like I'm one of a few who actually has been working very dedicated on myspace online game for years and it seems like it's very hard to find real honest people who dothe same thing with actual results.. not just theory or one trick pony success.

J

The problem with posting openers here, especially good ones it will spread like wildfire as everyone will use it. And soon the opener becomes pretty much useless as you are bound to run into some girl that has heard the line from someone else.

Hey Trace here brand new to the forum. I have had lots of success on my own before ever hearing about the game. However all of my targets were girls that I knew and I could always build my game pretty easily although I didnt consciously know that I was using structure until the "game" became popular. I am recently out of a marriage and i can say that i became somewhat "wussy" in the relationship, trying to make her happy... shes a 10 and 17 years younger than me! anyway - she also has been diagnosed with borderline personality disorder - so i dont feel that bad. Anyway, now that im on the hunt again, I thought I would try the online thing. I just moved from miami - which was a picnic - to Boston, where the hotties r less frequent. I also work alot and have a 7 month old son (already a little stud) So - POF - I join, find a hottie thats 12 years younger, and start in. I get the "ok" to meet, get her number...but then I jumped and pushed to hard to meet. AHHHHH. so she stopped responding to me. So I backed off and didnt write anything for a few days. I changed my profile and "cockeyed" it up a bit... then sent her the following text and this is how it went.

(her headline is "sowanttogetoffthissiteandtakeuwithme")

me: Let me know when ur ready to meet the man that's gonna take u off that site.

HB: I'm ready... my schedule isn't

me: well I hope we don't miss each other. After all, what am I to do with this new broom I bought?" (reference to a joke she made about being swept off her feet)

HB: LOL... Don't get rid of the broom just yet

me: ok... but I only have 30 days to return it then I'm gonna bill u for it.

HB: 30 days is more than enough time.

me: ok, i'll try to keep all the cougars at bay in the mean time.

HB: Aaaaa youi like them younger?

me: Of course, I'm way too much for someone my age. can't keep up.

HB: LOL you don't say.... hmmmm that scares me a bit. I definately have a thing
for the sexy older alpha male.

me: Well I hope ur up to the adventure... lot's of suprises in store.

HB: Really now... consider my interest piqued.

me: Oh u have no idea But maybe u will find out.

HB: if im lucky

me: Look at u, we havent even met and ur trying to get lucky already! Geez!!!

HB: Na aaaaa

me: Listen I gotta go hit some golf balls. but how's ur daughter feeling (she was sick)

HB: Much better thank you... Maybe you can call me sometime

me: Maybe... JK Ill call u after golf. What r u doing home today? do u have swine flu? (shes a teacher)

HB: Im at work... rest time

me: have some cookies and milk for me.. Talk to u later.


Please let me know if u have any suggestions and what my phone call can include.

Thanks!

Trace - back in the game

jus a follow up to the story.

later that night I asked for her regular email so "I don't have to log onto the POF site to send you something... I promise I will only send u 8 or 9 creepy emails a day!"
(credit... somewhere on here!)

she responded: "Oh fun! creepy emails are my favorite!" then gave me the email address.

me: Oh we're gonna ger along great then! Sleep well and no kinky dreams about
me!... (yet) Wink

HB: ok I will keep the dreams PG rated for the time being.. good night.



The following day was very sexually charged emails. she asked if I dreamt of her (I told her it was my turn to dream) and was my dream dirty? I called and we set up a meet on Saturday in her town, got coffee went for a walk and kiss closed of course at that point. She was very into me... totally due to the cocky/funny thing.
Feels great to get back out there and in control... still have a lot to learn but ready for more!


Trace
Got in touch with her late that night and the convo was great full of sexual play in reference to going out dancing together.
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One I use a lot after I've added a girl and she's been on my friends list for a bit and it works 50% of the time:
Subject: So...
Message: Are you shy or something?

Then it doesn't matter what they write back I put:
Well you've been on my friends list for a while now and still haven't said hi...how rude! Lol :O

Then just carry on the convo normally.


Also I've found that saying ''Hey I recognise you, aren't you (a random girl's name)'s friend? You were at that party last weekend?'' gets more replys than anything else.

Hey there~i normally don't do this but I think you're mega cute and I'd love to get a chance to spank you..

Before we go any further, what are three things about you personally that makes you spank worthy? ie. you have a cute buggs bunny smile, can jump through fiery hoops, part-time clown..they don't all have to be silly, but i won't judge you too much if they are. i kinda like a girl who doesn't take herself too serious especially before she's about to get spanked..

Don't take this the wrong way caus most people are uptight and probably would. If this is really you and not a fake profile, I'm up for it. let me know if you are too

J

Haha love it I'm trying that one out!