hi guys hope i can receive some advice and feedbacks from you all.

the situation:

basically put, she is not attracted to me ( because my DHV sucks i guess ) , but she really really sincerely enjoys her time with me ( as I am with her ) .

also, we hang out really alot, like at her house or sth.

but one bad thing is that, so far i have done quite alot of AFC shit. i told her i wanted her to be my girlfren or some shit likedat. so she already knows my intent and the excuse she give was " now is not the right time .... bla bla "

all those excuses are rubbish.. therefore, yesteday i went to meet her at her house, and the kino was amazing, hug her, hold hands, bite here and there, grabbed her legs all those things, fun factor wise was 90% .

the thing is , i tried to kiss her many times, like without saying anything, just go in for the kiss ( cos i believe that after the make out, all the bitch shield would be gone ? ) . but whenever my face gets close, she would avoid it.

its very obvious that i was trying to kiss her and she was trying to avoid.

after that another AFC thing happen, she ask me what time i was going home ( it was about 4am already ) , i should have left at the peak.....

then she send me a message when i went home same as follow:

I feel that im giving you false hope. i know you wanna try, but i dont want you to get hurt if it doesnt go your way. i just want you to understand, i am treating you this way, and not rejecting you , because i treat you as a good and steady friend.

sorry guys this is amazingly AFC shit, but how shuold i carry on from here?

should i ignore her for a while? or talk to her heart to heart, logically.

also, i plan to say sth like, just be with me for 2 more months, because i would be going to University soon ( flooded with girls ) , by then i would have access to unlimited girls already...

is that AFC or what? haha

thanks for your time for reading and please advice.

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You are in the friend zone for sure. Its really though for me to help you out after this because I don't have much experience here. My best advice is to pull back and not hang out with her as much. Don't show anymore interest in her and get some jealousy going.

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WEll, she kinda flat out told you that you are in the friends-zone, so....... you're in the friends-zone. Just move on and dont dwell on it.

Ya.. she did give you the "just friends" line. I would just move on. Good luck!

Exactly. You are a friend. You need to stop acting like a friend. Completely ignore her, don't talk to her or call her and when she wants to talk or hang out make up an excuse and leave. Work on a new girl get her jealous and if your not happy with the new girl perhaps you may have a chance with your just friend.

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You must be willing to lose a girl if you want to have any chance of seducing her.

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gett out of the friend zone...ignore her for a while, when u start talking to her again act as if ur life has been AWWWWWWWWSOME! goin out with ur boys like everynight gettin drunk and havin a ball. If u cant kiss clost try verbalisin the kiss. How do u rate urself as a kisser? how u really want to kiss me dont u? SHHHHHH...u talk a lot! do u wanna kiss me? No? well i didnt say u could

im all for helpin out man, but you gotta move on. ur in the friends zone. i would give you advice on how to get out of the friends zone, but first you gotta learn how to never step in the friends zone to begin with. ur done mate. she's done. if anything, ignore her, not bogus style, just tell her ur always busy.

It seems you are definitely being friended, and if you're not careful you're on the verge of being "that" guy.

What you need to do now is be a man. You need to be alpha. Firstly, continue to be her friend. I honestly wouldn't ignore her, if she's not attracted to you as more than a friend ignoring her isn't going to do anything but loosen your connection as a friend. What you need to do now is NEVER directly hit on her, and NEVER go for kino escalation unless you are absolutely certain she wants you hardcore. This won't be for a long time.

Basically what you are going to do is research what an alpha male is and become that. Be in the friend zone and be comfortable with it. Game other girls WELL in front of her. Make her have so much fun around you and see that you are a CHANGED MAN without you EVER mentioning it or bringing up the past with her up.

Don't be needy. Don't let her know that her emotions towards you when she friend zoned you bother you. Don't buy her flowers. Don't ever talk about hooking up.

Do everything to become the alpha male and MAKE HER WANT YOU as more than a friend.

I hope this helps some.

Breaker

I am in the process of winning over a girl who told me she was seeing someone else, and by all intents and purposes its fair to say that what I am doing s DEFINATELY WORKING!

now, for you... I would say Jealousy is definately the best card to play... in Women, Jealousy is a stronger emotion then attraction.... and preselection is actually single handedly THE MOST ATTRACTIVE ATTRIBUTE A MAN CAN CONVEY!

what i did, was to start with I sent an "accidental" message to my target... the content of the msg went as follows "lol, no not tonight ellie. I have to play my basketball.... maybe saturday if your a good girl"

lol. it isnt lying.... its flirting!

from there on in, my repore with this girl has been at the level where it was when we were first attracted to eachother... and the I Ching (ancient coin custom that predicts the future) is telling me to keep progressing in this manner and great success ensues.

It wouldnt hurt you to be a little unavailable... atleast a few times that she wants to see you. Purposely, ... If she has ANY attraction to you AT ALL you need to get her thinking! this girl, knows that she has you... and in doing so, your probably option 10 for her to actually try for...

Remember your attraction switches and systematicly flip them

social status
preselected by women
willing to emote
leader of men

and all subsiduary qualities should be expressed. when i stopped doing that, i started losing my girl... now that im doing it again.... i have rekindled the spark. you have nothing to lose in this situation, you are literally on the bottom... any move you do from here will be an improvement so dont even sweat it. game other girls, and just hit them attraction switches because u literally cant fuck anything up if there isnt anything there....