I was recomended the book "The Game" by a friend of mine and I started reading it immeadiatly. This was yesterday and I'm on page 200 and decided that was a good place to stop and take a look on the internet to see what this guy had been talking about this whole book. I assume this is the reason many people come here.

On a more personal note I am 18 years old and have had 2 girlfriends one for 6 months one for 9. I've had sex with 4 women. 2 being said girlfriends and 2 being girls who for some reason slept with me. My girlfriends and me never did anything crazy as in a threesome or anything like that the craziest thing I've done is showered with one.

This makes it sound like I can hold my own in the field. This is not true although I had these girlfriends and these 2 flings I don't know how I was lucky enough to get them. All of them were friends that just turned out over the coarse of a few months to be more, It was by no means a stratagy I used in a day. More like a few months of going home and hating myself for not holding her hand or whatnot.

I have been without more than a kiss from a girl in over a year and I would like to change that. When I meet new girls (usually we share a mutual friend) I want to be able to take them and make out with them that night. That's my goal. I'm still in High School so I think going much farther than that every time is seting the bar pretty high.

My problem is confidence. When I meet new women I don't talk. Period. I shy away and wait for them to start hitting on me (never happens). Every night I go home without the girls even remembering my name. I know no magic or anything cool like that to show them the only thing I could really do is teach them about the theory of relativity and blow their minds with thought experiments (Science geek) I fear this as coming off as nerdy and hard to bring up in a conversation.

Anyway sorry for the long paragraph but this is where I'm at.

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