How do you isolate if your wingman has preoccupied himself with another girl? Also, what do you do when you "make your move"? Do you say something like "lets go to your place"? (I know thats awful but...) Sorry for these very seemingly "basic" questions. I know it sounds stupid asking this as a 30 something year old man but I have been quiet and reserved my whole life and am just starting to break out a bit now thanks to some great people I met at work who are trying to help me. Any answers?

What you do on the previous day would tell whether you would get success(read date) the next day. If you sound too eager, or look to eager while taking the number you might lose the chance of a date.

And mate, not to be rude, but you being 6'2 and goodlooking doesn't mean a shit if you don't know how to keep a woman attracted to you and trigger her emotions. I have walked into bars, chatted with women who were with "good looking" tall guys and later dated some of these and I'm only 5'7.

Also if you pick up a number in a bar, she may not have any emotional relevance to you and hence the next morning you are nothing more than just another guy on Sat. nite. So my day 2 is almost like starting off from where we left the conv. on day one and then at a hook point I would set up a date. Create humor and magic for the woman, let her enjoy the pleasure of meeting you rather than worry whether you wanna get into her pants.

So, your day 2 depends largely on how tight your game on day 1 is.