Right guys heres the deal....ive seen a lot of the long distance posts but i think mines is unique so need another opinion on it...

basically i went back home to glasgow last week for easter. stayed there 9 days.

on my 2nd day there i met this sexy wee biatch and we met up 2 days later....
we hit it off instantly and found out we got a lot in common and share the same sense of humour - you get the deal i wont bore ya.

anyway since i told her i'd be leavin to london after 9 days we met up 5 times and really felt a connection(didnt get to bang her tho - probs cos shes from a asian background so has a bit more reservation which i actually admire cos im asian too) we didnt officaily say we're bf/gf but i know theres a connection there and whenever we emt up - especially the last time we were acting like bf/gf.

anyway....i told her i'd be movin back up to glasgow in 2 weeks so i'll see her again. problem is that i lied and i'l stil be here for another 3-4 months altho i will be goin up regularly anyway to see my family etc.

my question for the masses is how do i keep her attracted to me during this whole period(3/4months till i get back)? i've never dun the whole long distance thing b4 either. also i know she likes talking on the fone a lot - even tho i dont cos it bores me but shud i txt her everyday or wotever? usualy i wait til she txts me till i txt her but not sure if i shud initiate it sometimes while im down here to show i stil like her cos i really do and shes got a fit body that i wna just yeeeaah bukkake basically.

any advice would be greatly appreciated, cheers man

before anything else... your gonna have to clean that up quick...
lying to a girl is not going to get you into a good relationship thats for sure...

if this chick is into you and your going to be up regularly then let her know your interested... put a timer on it.. and plan your time together...

its not a impossible situation cus its only 3-4 months... so when your not together.. chat, talkon the phone... plan what to do when you see each other again...
keep the esclation up.. and then just have amazing weekends when your in town.

if she is interested then that should do it... and 3-4 months from now it will be good as gold...

JMT,
Lucky

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hey man cheers for the advice i've been trying to keep that going...talking on the phone, texting etc but today and kinda yesterday she seems to be going a bit cold....she doesnt text as much now and today she didnt even reply to my text...im thinking maybe she wasnt as interested now that she knows im all the way down here - even if it is 2 weeks in her mind!

maybe hot girls in general have a short attention span - or it might just be this one.

i duno if i should just do the same and cool it down a bit or try to engage her more - if i do that tho seems like im needin her more than she needs me which could be bad, but i dont wna lose her cos i really like her.

im even more confused than i was before!

and i havent had like a honest chat with her about where we stand - i thot it would be kinda lame so i left it but it would be good to know whats happenin with us.

anymore wisdom would be welcome,

cheers

here are a few thoughts... just to add
if this is true, then she may just be taking it slow... you never know... and lets face it.. if you guys hit it off the way it sounds... there shoulnt be too much of a problem
but im no asian guru so there could be some culture issues im not aware of.
im not quite sure what this means... I mean, she could just be busy... that time of the month, or who knows what... one day isnt enouph to judge that... its not like she is gonna talk to you 24/7
Texting and etc... is a step backwards in the whole thing,
I would probably stick to voice... it helps you know what the dynamic is, and helps keep things going... also will give you way more indicator of how things are as you can hear her voice, tonality, and responces better than txting.
sometimes being honest and direct is the best way to go, it gives you an idea of where you stand right away....
I would advise getting in front of her face before having a good heart to heart... that way you can judge better the dynamic... but if it is gonna be too long before you see her again.. you may just have to sit down and be like.. hey, i really like you, but its going to be a few months before I can get moved up to Glasgow. How do you feel about that? (hmm or maybe you can tell her you jsut want to keep it as friends until she can spend more time with you consistantly? anyone have any thoughts on that one?)

thats about all I have right now,
I mean... the door is kinda open, as long as you dont shut her down... you always have the chance of re-initiating if things cool down now.. once you get up there perminantly.

JMT,
Lucky

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150 people are killed every year by Falling Coconuts.... 10 by Shark Attack.

I couldn't find any stats on death from approaching a woman.

hey man cheers for all the advice appreciate it and its kinda helped me look at it from a different light.

things did go kinda slow in the past coupl o days but just had a long chat wit her on the phone there an everythin was cool...did the usual teasin etc and she was laughin - turns out she just wasnt feelin well and was sleepin a lot but i think i cheered her up

yeah kinda have to stop being paranoid sometimes - i gues it can happen when you focus all ur energy into the 1 girl.....hard to keep it cool when its just 1 girl too and not become too needy.

would be good to get other peoples experience on this cos it happens quite a lot and would be good to learn from in the future...

My girlfriend of 1.5 years goes home every uni holidays to see her family. Ive done the 3 months before over summer and i must admit its hard, but defiantly not impossible.

My advice would be to enjoy your time apart, stay busy, and keep living your life to its full. This way she is going to feel like she is missing out on what your doing, miss you and therefore keep the attraction between you (you have to still talk to her etc just dont be needy). Also NEVER get jealous/paranoid unless you are 100% sure (i keep fucking this part up) because it will just make you look insecure.

Goodluck.. Time flys when your having fun