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A Sticking Point or SP is an issue you CONSISTENTLY run into.

It is NOT a point where you get stuck with ONE SPECIFIC GIRL.

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I keep getting LMR whenever I bring girls back to my place. This has happened at least 10 times already! What am I doing wrong?
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I got LMR with this one girl! What do I do?
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PostPosted: Tue Apr 21, 2009 1:16 pm 
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so i can open easily anough, i can neg to the point where she thinks its cute and funny, i can 'ignore' her enough so that i become 'her prize' but i cannot get past any of that.

like, yeh i am good at joking around and negging, but so good it gets to the stage where she loses interest. and yeh, i can make myself seem like the prize so well that she ends up pissing off and talking to other people

I JUST CANT FRIGGIN WORK OUT HOW TO GET PAST THESE POINTS SUCCESSFULLY!!!! and so i just try on another girl and it happens again!!!! and then i end up looking like a tool/afc who is rejected by everyone! WTF!!! please help, very frustrated!!!


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I have the same problem. I guess you just have to somehow isolate her and use some routines on her, and start building comfort (this is the stage A3 ---> C1)


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I see this a fair bit. Hats off to you guys for getting so many girls's attention, but once you have, you need to show them that you're not a player. Once you've got her attention, you can stop trying to get it (with all the loud funny stuff) and start to talk to her about herself, things that might interest her. Become interested in what she has to say. Start showing more interest in that, I think she will pay attention to someone who's interested in her mind, not just her body.


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Turn the conversation towards relationships and sex. When you are out at a bar or club, any girl you've never met before that talks to you for more than 5 minutes wants to have sex with you. She just doesn't know it yet. If you have enough confidence to do all the things you've just talked about, I can't see you having a problem with this.


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Hm, but if you skip the comfort phase she's going to see you as a player. So even if she does have sex with you, she most likely won't see you again.


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If she does have sex with you, who cares?

If she starts having doubts because she thinks you're a player, just use the usual techniques.


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Well, that goes without saying! If you are after a one night lay, sure :) If you want something meaningful and longer term, you need to give comfort.


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Sadly I don't think I could have something meaningful with a woman unless she was willing to have sex on day1 or at least day2.


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