hi guys, first time actually posting so take it easy on me haha. Anyways i want to open to this girl Ive know for at least 4 years now, we both know each other and have the same social circle. the thing is I haven't seen her in a while but still have her facebook.... used to have her phone number but lost it.

There is some background at least, Ive tried to ask her out once but I think i might of weirded her out, when i asked her you to dinner and then some ice skating or a walk. i dunno how i weirded her out but meh no big deal.

So now i want to open to her again and see if i can get her to hang out even for a bit. i know she's really into baseball so that might be fun. any ideas of how to open or just let her be...

thanks for the replies!
-broken325e

how about go to a girl and pull your hand out for the shake and say, hi iam BOB and smile always works for me then start a convo

Always go in confident. Always "do". If you say your gonna try your going to set yourself up for failure.

I myself have worked with facebook, and during my early AFC days I even tried hooking up with girls through it. But you said you have the same social circle. Make sure no other AMOGs are going after her. I suggest isolating her when your group of friends are hanging out. This is an ideal situation to use Styles and Mysterys technique. If you have the book The Game there is a chapter specifically in it on how to deal with these situations. Best of luck man, and keep me updated on how it goes.

Whats HB rating?

Sup bro,

So here's the deal. For one, don't get wrapped up with this chick. If she denies you again..just move on. But if not, good job.


So what'd you'd wanna do since you haven't seen her in a while, write on her wall on facebook saying something to the effect of "Hey you! Wow, it's been a while..Guess your too good for common folk like me huh? I'ma be at blah blah at blah blah o clock for (coffee, or ice cream or whatever u choose to do) meet me there, we needa catch up!

Basically, tell her not ask her. If the feelings of not seeing you for a while and missing you are mutual she'll either agree or reschedule if she can't make it. In that case your good.

Once you're out with her, make her remember WHY she missed you. Be outgoing, funny, fun and the life of the situation. All the while, steady gaming for whatever outcome you so desire. Try not to invite or be around the social circle you two are aligned with as to this might be a distraction for her. Introduce her to something new, a new ice cream, or coffee or whatever, show her your knowledgeable and try new things. Stuff like that.

Hope that helps a little bro..Good luck!

Great advice. But make sure she has your number, and what not. coming on to strong can make you seem clingy, but then again you want to get your point across.