**XFMAN, please excuse the length...I feel that an introduction should be just that. I find it difficult for anyone to introduce themselves in two sentences.**

All joking aside, I wish to include you all, and invite the many PUA’s, and PUA’s in training to follow my progression; My transition (if you will) from a casual, un-refined, un-tactical, yet confident and able to talk to women , 27year old male…into a more refined, more consciously focused PUA with an increased arsenal that will allow me to meet a higher quality of woman. (or so that is the thought)

As many of you, I too have read The Game. I came to purchase this book by shear curiosity. I was with a (girl) friend of mine talking about one of my favorite movies, Hitch. During the conversation, she told me of two (guy) friends of hers that actually made money teaching guys how to get with girls. Of course I wanted to know more, and after speaking to them I purchased the book.

A little about my history, and some quests I have conquered: I am from a small town in the midwest, population 20,000. I have never had trouble meeting girls. I am a very average looking guy, and although some women have called me “hot”, most will say things like, “he’s the nicest guy I’ve ever known”, “best friend a girl could ever have”, “he’s so motivated and concentrated on his future, but still down to earth”. I’m not sure whether any of these are compliments. In fact, I can become close to a girl so fast, I often enter the…FRIENDS ZONE!!!!!

I lost my virginity at the age of 17 (late by some standards) and within the next year and a half before leaving for the military; I had accomplished a lifetime of sexual feats.

-I had somewhere between 35-40 so called “notches”
-In a period of two days, Friday and Saturday, I had bedded 5 girls one particular weekend. (my girlfriend and my ex-girlfriend on Friday, and 3 Freshman cheerleaders *all friends, all at the same time * on Saturday)
-I had several girls that I would now consider “fuck-buddies”
-I had turned a 23year old girl, into my personal sex toy at the age of 18 competing with many older, more established men for her attention (ahhh, Amy…HB9)

Upon Leaving Home

-I had found that blondes were boring, and went after the brunettes, the redheads, the Latino women, the Asian women (my personal favorite, and for the last few years, my only choice for a girlfriend), and even a few black girls.
-Several three-somes
-Many Asian girls ( I repeat myself for a reason, those of you who have had the good fortune of bedding Asian women know why I repeated myself J)
-A couple of beautiful, 40 year old HB9’s (fellas, older women DO like younger men)

This short diatribe was not intended as a boastful resume, but rather an introduction to my purpose here. All of this was done well before I knew what a PUA was. What was it that I possessed that allowed me to accomplish all of this? I had never thought about it before I read The Game. Why do some guys have difficulty, while other’s flourish? This was the basis for my Social Experiment. It is my intent, to purposely change my behaviors around women in a way that is not natural to me (currently) in order to test several PUA techniques that I have read about, and each of you talk about within this forum. Will I receive the same results? Fewer? Higher quality?

As I post FR’s, please feel free to critique, advise, compliment, and scoff…We all have so much we can learn from each other. Wish me luck!

Cheers,

Stoli

Fuck, man! If working on my skills gets me half of the things you've mentioned I'd be more than pleased. I'll pay attention to your FRs

Please keep in mind, I do not consider myself in any way a PUA. I am a very curious individual that wants to know how well these techniques work. My hypothesis is that as long as you do the following things, you can meet girls;

1>Create/introduce/or prove, equal or greater social standing (social proof, as it would be)

2>Seperate yourself from the rest of the flock (every guy a girl has met since she turned 13 has been trying to sleep with her)

3>Show your value by accepting who you are and being extreamly confortable with "your truth" no matter what that "truth" is.

4>Enjoy life!

First of, welcome to the forum!

Secondly, wow Stoli! I think you are what most people would classify as a natural. I think most naturals are the guys that say stuff like "What do you mean 'how', you just DO. It works."

I'd love to hear more about your beliefs and how you see the world. If there's one thing that's really hit me lately it's this: techniques are nothing without beliefs. If you're not confident and comfortable with yourself, no girl is going to care if you have a sleeve full of techniques no matter how well they work for other guys. I think this is what you were saying here: I'm very new to the PUA lifestyle, and I'm still working on internalizing a lot of this stuff. It sounds like you've got this stuff down cold. I think myself and other people in my position could definitely learn a lot from you, so don't hesitate to share!

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"No good deed goes unpunished" -Rick H

I have included some insight into my thoughts in another section.

Here is the link

here-vp23696.html#23696