Okay, a little background info on my dilemma.
I dated this girl a few times, were friends before we dated and are still friends now. She started dating this guy, a possessive and jealous dude. He won't let her go anywhere without asking her where she's going, and who she'll be with.
Now she told me that he doesn't really trust her fully, and she really doesn't trust him fully either. When we were together this time, she kept looking at me with those eyes of her, and they were telling me to kiss her. I didn't. Bad move, I know I should have just gone for it.
I texted her a week later and told her what my favorite sex position was, I was high at the time. She asked me what the piledriver was. I told her in detail what the position entailed, after all, it is my favorite. She texted me back the next day and said her and her boyfriend both read the text and he got pissed. All I could do was tell her it was too funny and laugh about it. Now when I texted her, I didn't say "the girl puts her legs up", I said "I lay you down on your back, and I". So, I was making it look like I meant me and her, which I do.
I had to stop by her place as I was leaving for home this weekend to give something back to her, and her boyfriend was there listening to every word of our conversation, like I didn't know he was there. Chode.
Now, what is my next move? I realize I should have kissed her when I had the chance. I would know instead of wondering, but I didn't. I know I'll get another chance.

Wow Dude Its definityly a delema

Ok listen a year back my heart was broken and half of the experience i have is from that. I learned to get better with the relationship and handaling the boyfriend thing.


Ok

If this girl has your heart then theres no reason you should stop pursueing her. Its clear she also has a thing for you so capitaliz on that. Alone with a couple of BF distroyers to get rid of that poor misurable insecure old fool. you need to make it clear to her that your there for her and dont just want a one night stand. Seeing a girl you really like with anohter guy is heart renching. Now if there isent much of a chance she will not leave her BF for you then. I Suggest Distence. Stay away from her. Now is you are thinking o maybe we can be friends you cant. Because you will have an alterior motive. Which is going out with her or sex or w/e you want. Take my advice if its never guna work out leave her now. But if theres a chance then go for it. Just kno this dont depend tomuch on her and have her be your onlyone. because if you do your likly to get F'ed. Iv been there its not a good place to be

Good Luck mate

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Man I suggest you make sure to be spotted with some women while flirting with her a bit. Being simply nice and supportive to her is not going to help at all, you will end up as a very good friend, not more. This girl is with someone else, and if you want to take her in, it will have to be by 'bad boy style'.

Just keep gaming with her but don't get to involved, as there is possibility that she will not leave him, and even if she does, she may not choose for you. You will need to pull off really something to:
1. get rid of this guy
2. bring her in

Now, #1 seems already difficult enough as you describe this guy as possessive and jealous. Nonetheless, she stays with him and this says to me that she is putting up with it. She seems pretty into him and will only leave him if she has no choice, so this is not at all in your advantage.

Does not sound to nice from me, but its a difficult situation and you are willingly stepping right into it.

This situation sucks, I personally try to stay away from it. Only if I am able to game the girl with no emotion at all, I will do it. Otherwise, I stay away, simply because there are enough women out there. Remember one thing: focusing on other women does magic!

Allright, good luck man and keep us informed.

PS: I know about the BF destroyers techniques, but there are much more simpler options, that is, other women.