I'm not sure if this is the right place to post this but I am stuck.

I met a hottie on hotornot and have gone out on one date with her. We made plans for a second date but it hasn't happened yet. She keeps making excuses. My problem is she keeps calling and texting me, showing interest. She has a very pessimistic outlook and it's making it hard to communicate with her because she is easily offended and misunderstands me often. If she wasn't continually contacting me I would have forgotten her already. What should I do?

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Milan (my len)

I always proof read my posts several times before clicking "submit." If I missed something, blame the public school system

if the girl is emotionally unstable u dont wanna waste ur time on her, plenty more fish in the c.

girls with mental deficiencys used to always be attracted to me and I always thought I could "fix" them. If u do they leave and if u dont u gotta put up with a headcase, no win situation.

Word from the wise "get the fuck out"

Thanks man, you confirmed what I was already thinking.

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Milan (my len)

I always proof read my posts several times before clicking "submit." If I missed something, blame the public school system

maybe you are the one who is being negative and she is reading off of it.

I'm with Zikki on this one. A girl that can't take a little banter is one with no sense of humor and not worth wasting time with. You'll find yourself trying to console her that the negs aren't serious all the time. It'll be like treading on eggshells and will quickly become not worth the hassle.

i don't know dude. if she is that negative already i agree too much work.

if you were in a relationship and something happened to cause negativity ok..work with her. but on the second date. forget it.

everyone has a low self esteem in one way or another at one point in time.

here is the trick with issues of low self esteem. if you let a woman know they are acting in a way you don't like and they are willing to change their direction then you have a winner. this is a keeper.

But if you let a woman know that they are acting in a way you don't like and they get offended, then get rid of her.

you want to be with someone that is strong enough to admit it when they did something wrong and is willing to do the little things of change in order to please you. you can't just expect a woman to cater to you. it is a two way street.

Wait, before all of this talk about "Don't even put up with her if she has no sense of humor," did you neg her whilte texting? It is much easier to get offended when negged on a text then in person. If it was in person, then she's either not been hit on enough and/or has low self-esteem (in which case you shouldn't neg anyway).

Negs should be used to lower her bitch shield if she has raised one. Win girls over with C/F.