i think she has a big bitch shield. you should respond with something like "no. guys make it obvious when they like someone whether its on purpose or not, we just do "

make sure you put the otherwise it sounds like your trying to start an argument

whats you msn/IM (msn prefered) so i can help you out as you text her

P.S. call it "teen's pressure technique" or "TPT" for short instead of just 'teen's advice', but thanks for the mention man : )

-teen

hey my msm is juanmedinar20@hotmail.com I just send her the text

kl, let me know what she responds. where are you from? just so we can arrange decent times for both of us to be on msn when your texting her

-teen

I am in the US, South Carolina, Easter time

TY

UPDATE


I got another date from her, after about 2 months without much contact. I really want to make her crazy about me. I also Fclosed a 37 year old with 2 kids last saturday.

So after no hearing anything from her, I sent her one of Gambler's TEXT lines to get back in touch with someone you haven't hear from in a while.

ME: oh my god, you've been kidnapped! Don't worry, I'll rescue you! Are they feeding you? I'll bring you some chocolate, which do you prefer, dark, milk, or white? Thanks Gambler

HER: Hahaha good one juan how are you?!

ME: I am good but I been really busy. When are you going to salsa? you should come next week with friend and friend

HER: I think Ill have time this thrusday.......Friend is out of the country by the way I have been craving restauran lately!

ME: Oh! thanks for the invite, thanks for thinking about me. Yes I would love to go to restaurant. You are such a nice girl.....lol

ME: by the way where is friend?

HER: Haha yes me gustaria ir a restaurant with you Friend is in hollan for 7 weeks

ME: I don't know If I should go to restaurant with you...I really don't remember how you look like, send me a pic and I will make my decision on that lol stranger!

HER: Hahaha c'mon you and I know I am unforgettable!

ME:OMG you are no fun I am serious I dont remember you! I am not sure if this is my favorite HER of all the HERs I know. Is this the blond, blue eyes, long legs?

She is a red head with short hair.

HER: Hahaha. well I guess if u can't remember me then I wasnt important to you

ME: so, was it important to you?... okay blondy I see you thursday lol I keed I keed. HER I will se you Thursday.

HER: Heh I win! I don't have to send you a picture!

ME: lol I sill wnat that picture I let you know a what time on Wenesday. Good night

HER: k goodnight


So what do you guys think?
So I am going to see her on thrusdays I want to make her crazy, I plan on running the Cube, the trust test, and a ton of Kino escalation.

Coming on to strong, she knows she has you hooked. As for how you fix that you have to give her some space to chase you. Anyways you kind of blew it with her. I suggest you just set up ONE more Day2 with her and if she flakes on that then next her. Your time is too important for one bitch to waste.

Anyways, heres what I think went wrong with the interaction. You went on basically 3 dates with her. And you ONLY kissed her? Did you even try to get her alone and escalate sexually? Shes 19, you're 24, she was definitely expecting the sexy older guy to just fuck the shit out of her. Should have isolated her and then escalated. ISOLATE -> ESCALATE. If you get rejected then fuck it, next her, and that is saving your time again too. Would also prevent you from getting into this situation in the first place of her flaking and you guys playing phone tag.

i disagree...alot of girls like to get to know you and build comfort before they fuck.

plus, it's not like he's been focusing on this one girl, he fclosed a 37 year old with 2 kids (congrats) so it's not like it's wasting time.

just wondering juan, but what the trust test?

and i think you should run the lie game on her too, its a great way to get something you want

-teen

I agree and disagree, yes she thinks she has me hooked but I have to change this some how. To me IMO we only have been in one real date. Yes I only have Fkiss her on date 2 and 3. I have seen her in like 2 months since the last time, so I don't know if I should try to Fclose her thursday. What do you think?

I actually have like 4 chicks line up , I love this comunity


Do you mean the 5 lies game? what should I ask her? Do you think I should try to Fclose? I have not seen her like 2 months.

I plan asking her for a massage, than telling her that let me show her how to do right, than pull her hair and bite her neck, will see how it goes!


If I try to Fclose her what should I said to her, I live with my parents. I made the 37 years old take me to her house. IDK, Something like : "I want to spend the night with you, I want to lay in bed and really get to know you"

Any suggestions?

don't say that line. just say "lets go back to yours, my place has got builders all over the place"

just ask her any questions...there designed to be easy so she doesn't have to think of the answer. something like "what colour is the sky?" will do just fine.

LikeTheWind is right

juanmedina you've wasted so much time an effort on this girl you should have made your intentions clear day 1. Three Dates? and you didnt escalate sexually not once yeah i say shes see you as nice guy "Friend Zone." Its a been a month since the original post. Get it together. You best make a move now on your date or its over.

Finally I'd advise against you taking any more of Teen's "TPT" he's only further contributing to your time wasting behavior thats getting you nowhere.

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Came off a bit much as wanting to see her IMO. I send texts daily - remember to keep texts to the point and be assertive. Yea the lack of escalation may have disinterested her in the past 3 dates.

Next time, next time

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